Hello, I’m new to this website. I’m struggle a lot, I miss a man that made me feel “nice” and I’ve been objectifying him way too much. It hurts still just like you and it’s been 3 months. I’m also an active church goer, Catholic per se. God is good and it doesn’t hurt to talk to someone at church who can give your resources. I find him in my brokenness, not when I’m trying to be strong. I think my heart will change internally, one day. I hope.