So many wetdreams lately.

Yeah, I've heard about others having wet dreams very frequently as well. I had a streak of them after abstaining for 4 months. Besides that, I had some here and there. Max a couple per month. Same goes for right now. Last night I actually didn't have a wet dream but only an ejaculation. I didn't even feel it happening. But I have felt the pressure for some time now, was only a matter of time until it came out.

The frequency of wet dreams have increased for you probably because you are holding more and more pressure. This might be just a streak of many wet dreams in a short period to release that pressure which will then weaken, and the frequency will go down.

I believe you can control them to some extent. I have noticed that I can control the pressure better now than before. This is probably because of various exercises I've been doing multiple times a day. In January, I ejaculated while doing one of these exercises where I squeezed my glutes together. I was feeling a lot of pressure from abstaining at this time. Now when I do that exercise, I can feel the tingling when you are about to ejaculate, but I have more control over it. I haven't done any research on any pelvic exercises that target this exact matter, the exercises I'm doing are for my posture but there is a lot of pelvic area action in them. So maybe you could try some exercises. Just squeezing your glutes together might work like they have seemed to work for me. But be careful, you might ejaculate easily by doing this.

Another thing is fantasizing. It plays a role in having wet dreams. Try to control your thoughts and avoid excessive fantasizing. You could also make sure that you are very tired by the time you go to bed so you won't be dwelling in your thoughts.