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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by godslove, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. godslove

    godslove Fapstronaut

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    I am so lucky to have found such a big, supportive group for my struggle/sin. I am up to be an accountability partner and in need of one, ya I'll say that in my intro. Been exposed to porn at a very earlier age (10), grandpas stash... I ashamed to say it but only realized it was an issue until I was in relationship with my now fiancé. It was a big shock for her to find out, me coming from a Christian background to struggle she thought how could I? It has taken a toll on our relationship... It's really the only think we get it fights about.

    I'm sick and tired of it all! I want to be able to resist temptation! I know with the help from god and the great people on this network I will reach my goal! I a getting married very soon! How awesome would it be to be "fap" free/pure for that remaining time? So I need help. What do you guys think works best first?
     
  2. Focus

    Focus Fapstronaut

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    First of all... Congrats on your marriage plans! That's great news.

    Secondly, congratulations on your decision to take control of your life.

    While I am new here myself, one thing I know is that you have a huge advantage in that she knows NOW. Before marriage. And she is still there. That's huge brother!

    I was married for ten years, (divorced 5 years ago), and never told her about my addiction and never got caught. But I know it affected our marriage, and I know it affected me... and always has.

    Just want to say that you have nothing to be ashamed about. You are tackling this now and changing your life for the better.

    I started 4 days ago and while I have tried before and failed, I tried it alone and without the knowledge of the NoFap and the support that lay within. You also have the support of a woman who loves you my friend and that is huge!

    Not sure what approach will work for you but I am going to shoot for 30 days cold turkey. No nothing. No PMO. No edging. Nada.

    You can do it and know that there are tons of supporters here for you. Now is not the time to look back... now is the time to look forward, at the life you have decided to live and the person you have yet to discover!

    Good luck my friend.
     

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