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Sleeping with girfriend while reboot

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by molotrap, May 2, 2019.

  1. May 2, 2019 #1
    molotrap

    molotrap Fapstronaut

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    Hey, i'm 23 years old and i'm addicted to pmo since about 11 years now. December last year i started the nofap challenge, since then i twice reached the 3 weeks mark. And even then i didn't relapse normally, i Just did it once then and continued with my nofap Goals. With that i gained huge benefits like getting more calm, doing more sports and have many improvements in general.

    I also get to know a huge amount of girls since this year because I can talk to them more naturally now. Now since about 3 weeks I'm having my first real relationship. And now we had a few times sex. I didn't relapse with fapping or porn but I have the feeling now that I'm less calm in my daily routines. Can someone relate to this or did someone have the same story?

    Idk what I should do now, I really much enjoy the sex with her, but I'm not sure if it throws me back in my progress.

    Greetings
    Molotrap
     
    molotrap, May 2, 2019
    molotrap, May 2, 2019
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  2. May 3, 2019 #2
    N0thing

    N0thing Fapstronaut

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    Well every brain is different. But nofap recommends 90 days of no o to avoid any relapse. For a lot of p addicts, the brain doesn't know the difference between sex and p in the early stages. Plus sex tends to be a trigger for m 1-2 days later. There's nothing wrong with sex, but another reason for the 90 day reboot is to learn to have sex without o :) Good luck!
     
    N0thing, May 3, 2019
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  3. May 4, 2019 #3
    Bobske

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    I've read from several persons on NoFap that it take (at least?) a year of Nofap No PM to learn what your real sex drive is.
    I've had sex and O with my wife 3 times in these 63 days, does it set me back, yes.
    Do I want to go Hard Mode, not sure.
    3 weeks into a relationship and your not calm.
    My wife still drives me crazy in all kind of positive and some negative ways after 15 years.
    Welcome to love, never go back to PMO and good luck
     
    Bobske, May 4, 2019
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