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Size of penis!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Teddy6677, Sep 5, 2017.

  1. Veritech

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    After binging with PMO for days on end, it becomes very difficult to maintain a full erection. It is far easier to maintain a full erection without PMO. A full erection is bigger, longer and thicker than a not so full erection.

    So yes, the penis does grow bigger without PMO.
     
  2. Tesseract

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    My question is... if long time no porn & No sex of any king affects my size ( if it shrinks ) ! I've seen users here with success stories ... maybe they can tell if I have any reason to worry
     
  3. kingpietro

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    it gives you harder erections wich results in you're dick not increasing in size but the
    width. it olso stands up more straight and looks bigger..
     
  4. Tesseract

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    of course a break is good like 3-6 weeks , but I once had 2 months and I didn't felt good . mostly that's why I always gave up . now I'm considering total abstinence for 3 years so an advice from somebody who experienced that , will be beneficial.
     
  5. Ben Gilliam

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    Does anyone mentioned here about dick extenders yet? What are your thoughts about this stuff, folks?
     
  6. Tesseract

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    total mistery for me. all I'm thinking is natural way only ...if there is any
     
  7. GG2002

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    @Sadgirl i think you have officially found the cure for pmo! If you had taken pictures and men believed they could increase penis size by 20% by just stopping pmo can you imagine? I kid not really not the amount of time men spend obsessing about their penis size astounds me! The sheer amount of threads on here just devoted to penis size guys it's not all that serious to women. Guys spend time on learning how to pleasure a woman, how to talk with her, how to make her feel safe etc. If men spent as much time thinking about these things as they do about penis size what a wonderful world this would be! A dude with a porn size penis scares me! Seriously guys that large have issues finding partners who can tolerate them. And a man with a big penis who's an asshole or has no idea how to treat a woman is useless!
     
  8. GG2002

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  9. Not obsessively watching those professional horse-sized dudes dicks everyday will make you feel like your own normal dick is bigger.
     
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  10. @GG2002, This is an ignorant and patronising statement^. How about all the women that are having botox because they are obsessed with how their lips look, have their labia surgically adjusted or removed or have breast enhancements or reduction operations? How about the fact that women are obsessed with their hair - putting it in different styles and colours etc. How do you have the nerve to criticise just one thing that concern many men - their penis size. Until women stop obsessing about numerous parts of their body, you have no right to criticise men for this one cause of anxiety. Just stop it!
     
  11. Never Again

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    I think you misunderstood. She wasn't bashing men for being concerned about their penis size or saying that women aren't concerned about sexual image. She is simply saying that men are more concerned about their own penis size than women are concerned about men's penis size.
     
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  12. GG2002

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    Ummm exactly what @Never Again said and my apologies if it came across anyone. What I was doing was using humor and extremes that make a very serious point. You all are obsessing about something that is a minor blimp to 85 or 90% (depending on the study) of women. Clearly you did not read my links just decided to automatically be offended. Studies show the most women are satisfied with their partners size in one study only 15% were dissatisfied with that portion also being made up of women saying it was too large. A similar study found that more often than not men said they were too small but the men's partners did not feel the same and the men when actually measured were average or above average size. I do think the men on this forum are hypercritical of their size because of all the porn they watch. It is to mention something you said like women and obsessing about their looks because of the air brushed models they see or trying to make their hair look like a celeb not realizing that celeb has multiple hair dressers not accessible to normal women and a headful of hair extensions! But to your point they you think it's the same as women getting plastic surgery or their hair I disagree that this is the same thing not even close. First one, a focus on a woman's looks is reality meaning men care how she looks, probably 99.9% do. Do they care about having a supermodel some men do but no one can deny that men want a lady who looks good. Women want a man that looks good too. The belief that ones looks effect life in general and dating is founded in actual reality. The fact that women care all the much if at all about penis size is not based in reality and so the fact that men are so obsessed and focused on it to the detriment of things the actually do matter in life and dating is ridiculous and I'm trying to show you it is! Second with the exception of a very small part of the population women don't select men based on penis size. You don't go on online dating sites and see people list penis size above average, average etc. But you do see listed hair color, hair length, curly or straight, height, weight because this are things that attract people to others not penis size. You can't even compare an obsession with female breast size because even if a woman is unhappy with her breast size there rooted in reality men care about that for the most part. Women again don't care about penis size. The majority would rather have an average or below average size if they loved everything about the man. Third men with big members are generally bad in bed. They have the attitude that the have a big penis so they need to do no more. The two worst lovers I have ever had had porn size members. I took a poll and asked about 20 of my female friends and they all agreed. Fourth with limited exceptions you can't change your penis size so why obsess about it? All that does is waste time and take energy from where your real focus should be and finally I wonder if pmo addicts being so obsessed with size is part of the reason many struggle that find dates and are lonely. They think their penis is small and their self esteem is so low that they can't even approach women yet alone maintain relationships! Women smell insecurity from a mile away but the men are insecure for no reason. The way to get a woman is not by having a big penis and it's certainly not how you keep her. And if you are on the smaller size then play up your strengths everyone has a weakness despite what people appear on the outside. Own what you have!! I had an ex who was on the smaller side and he was one of the best lovers I ever had. He owned that it was small but far made up for it with other things. My point is if you all want to over focus on something that really is meaningless to most women go ahead. The only person your penis size matters to is you and other men. If you are interested in dating other men then I can understand the focus otherwise I just think you are wasting your time. And the amount of threads on here about penis size is utterly astounding more than how to fix relationships with partners leading to my earlier point that men are focusing on the wrong things. I find that people are most offended when an opinion holds some truth otherwise why would they care? If I called you fat and you knew you were skinny as a stick would you be upset? Unlikely. So if you are offended by what I am saying it's because you see some truth in it. I am not being condescending if you take it that way that's on you I am just being honest in an effort to actually help you all.
     
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  13. I would like to add to this point that if man care most about womans breast and butts he is still immature boy.
    We like curves but real man look at a woman as a whole. Mature man is not objectifying woman and not see her as a parts of her body. What is sexy in woman ? Feminine spirit, self acceptance, self affirmation, confidence, sensuality, smile and eyes. Man is fulfilling his life and spirit chasing his purpose, not chasing after women.
    Todays male obsession about boobs'n'butts is nothing more than an infantile urge to be instantly satisified.
    We have generation of immature boys and you can see proof nearly everyday in media.
    I have been there. Nowadays on reboot I can se it more clearly and clearly.

    Also obsession about penis is infantile, feed by pornographic culture.
     
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  14. Wow, it's amazing that so many men are anxious about their penis size! I visit the nofap forums almost 2 years now and I can tell you I've seen tens of threads and hundreds of posts of insecure guys regarding their size. Guys, CHILL!

    Pornstars have been auditioned first, and pornographic studios choose the ones with a larger member than the average. Men's size actually is quite normal. So, stop being so insecure about this, alright? Try to enjoy life and love who you are, the way you are!

    If a chick won't like you because of your dick size, then... she's a dick! Lol !
     
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  15. Hitto

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    I think what you said was spot on and I'm not offended it's the truth as abstain from porn its more important to have substance then have a long Willy lol I used to feel plagued by the stereotype that all us black men are hung porn contributed to that
     
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