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Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Proveyourlove07, May 24, 2019.
Oh no, I am so sorry! Are you safe now?
Good lord are you out of there now? I sure hope so.
I still live with him for the time being but I have an emergency escape plan
Okay...please be wise. Physical abuse is also progressive. If it happened once it will happen again and it will get worse.
Promise you will be safe...
WHAT!!! OMG!!!!!!! are you ok?
Why are you still there?!?! Are you scared of leaving because he might hurt you?
Is there a close girlfriend you can confide in?
I’ve been trying to wait for a day where he will he out of the house for a while, I don’t have any family in this state, and my closest girl friend lives 2 hours away and I have no car. So I have to time things perfectly
I would venture that any church or womens group in your area can provide you with a safe haven for a few days u til you get things sorted
That’s a good idea!
I’m going to look into it right now, it’ll be a safer bet
Our prayers are with you.
Please keep be careful and only update us if it is safe to do so.
I hope you are ok and escaped successfully.
Update us when you can but always be safe.
You are so young at 23, I was 23 once and my daughter is 23 too.
She had a what turned into an abusive codependant relationship. He had all sorts of 'problems ' filmed her and put it on a porn site, without her knowledge, cheated the list goes on. eventually after 3 years of what she called once "true love" ended when she found him with yet another girl - she thumped him in the face knocked him over and walked away. ( I'm not condoning violence) That is well behind her now but what he did still haunts her.
Now as a mum, I need to tell you being safe is the most important thing you must do for yourself - the first and last. I know you don't have family or friends near by for back up.
So you must want to be safe for yourself - above all things and not stop til you establish that rule in your life FOREVER!
LOVE is a bond of care....if you didn't learn it from your parents - I'm a mum in the UK letting you know.
How this guy is treating you is not LOVE is it?
There's a reason people can't show love it's not your fault - its not about you. But you deserve to be loved don't you?
We all do
what are your hopes and dreams? what do you want to do and see in this life? how can you make a small step to being the person you'd like to be?
Start making a plan to be safe @Proveyourlove07 you are valuable.
This lady has a tiger inside - I bet you do too.
lots of love...