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Should i go to escord?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Marlon-Brando, May 31, 2018.

  1. Marlon-Brando

    Marlon-Brando Fapstronaut

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    hey guys,

    i am in 50 days. And i am struggling whit that flatlines its getting stronger day by day. How can i handle? Should i wait or this flatlines going forever during the all nofap process? İts not the process for me actually because i will never watch porn or mast.
     
  2. Marlon-Brando

    Marlon-Brando Fapstronaut

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    hey guys,

    i am in 50 days. And i am struggling whit that flatlines its getting stronger day by day. How can i handle? Should i wait or this flatlines going forever during the all nofap process? İts not the process for me actually because i will never watch porn or mast.
     
  3. Julius93

    Julius93 Fapstronaut

    You can go to "escord" and start from day 0 again or you can be patient and keep going on.
     
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  4. treborn

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    Flatline is not forever,also flatline is a good thing,second..dont go to escort is like you relapse
     
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  5. Flatline(s) depends and varies for everyone. Even the flatline itself is different all on its own for the person going through it himself. Some people experience one and that is it and some see a few of them pop up. This is what I went through. Mine lasted for some nine almost ten months. It was just one flatline that went on for a very long time and it came up two days after I went on monk mode. I didn’t get depressed or had low energy but it was the Dead Sea from the waste down. Started getting morning wood on the fifth month mark from what I remember and that was the only highlight and glimmer of hope but I was emotionally not there.

    Best way to handle it? Hit the weights. Iron therapy is best. I was doing lots of HIIT and threw in yoga but raising my testosterone levels really helped through lifting weights. Read lots of books. For me was finding manosphere blogs because they talk much about how to eliminate porn and whacking off from your life. Never stop learning. That is where I discovered how awesome uDemy is. Taking some courses like mental math, digital photography, and online marketing for instance kept my mind going. This takes lots of focus and productivity and I have not been back in a classroom for a very long time so I have to admit I take nootropics to help me concentrate.

    As for looking for escorts. For the 95% to 99% of you guys on NoFap I wouldn’t recommend it. If somehow this helped you with NoFap you will have to decide if it is worth throwing down money on. For me I have to admit I have done so and got this out of my system and I have no interest anymore. Just remember that nowadays there are some drug resistant STD bugs out there.
     
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  6. Captain Cornelius

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    I would definitely not go to an escort. You've seen the effect of masturbation and pornography in your own life. Now, how would engaging in what the people who were in the porno's engaged in help at all? If you saw someone pulled out of a burning building would you run into one yourself and then try to come out? It's hypocrisy my friend, and I believe you're better than that, and deserve better than that, something better than a one-night-stand, but a wife in the future or something, a suitable partner who will make you happy, (and if you wanted such, why do this? also, if you were going to have such, in your speaking to them and opening up to them how would they react to hearing about this?)

    Think of the future, bro, and keep working towards what's best for you, what you know in your heart is right!

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    - Captain Cornelius
     
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  7. treborn

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    10 months of flatline?????????
     
  8. Yeah that was how long it lasted. I guess I had a very severe case in terms of rewire. For me to get off with a women I had to flip porn scenes in my head or else it would go no where. All those years of accumulated porn scenes had to be flushed out of my head. When finally I forgot most of these scenes life down there started to return. As even a plain Jane started to get me aroused that was when I knew things would be ok.
     
  9. Marlon-Brando

    Marlon-Brando Fapstronaut

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    Thank you man really.
     
  10. leppardfan25

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    I dont know if it would be so bad to go to escort...at least you would be with a real woman,not porn,and it can help your recovery,its strictly my opinion. Better,if you fuck than masturbate,its a good way to "measure" the level of your recovery. Its bullshit to expect people be like a monk, its the part of life,and somewhere its our goal,to have a healthy sexual life. Well, having sex is!
     
  11. Marlon-Brando

    Marlon-Brando Fapstronaut

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    not the same thing, you know that genius
     
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  12. ukbritishbloke

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    No.
     
  13. GA93JDeereboy

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    Let me ask you this. If you do go and see the escort what will happen next? A few days or weeks and see her again? And again? If your asking this it's most likely a no. Let's be a man everyone and go out and find someone. Go to Wal-Mart or anyplace where you we woman and at least say hi to them and see what can happen. Who's up for it?
     
  14. The women of Wal Mart eh!
     
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