Shemale and Gay porn, how many addicted?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by SpringWater, Apr 23, 2019.

  1. SpringWater

    SpringWater Fapstronaut

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    This post is my attempt to trying to get us all to help one another and see we aren’t alone.

    How many of you are hooked by this? I’m getting better but this shot fucked my head up.
     
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  2. topilabv

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    Well I feel u man i‘ve been trapped into the shemale porn for years, I even had 3 sexual encounters with shemale escorts.. now I’m off porn for almost a year the shemale addiction is not as strong as it was at all... it does fade away with time but i‘m Still dealing with hocd thoughts and sometimes when I think about a shemale I feel sth down there. However I never liked guys never found them attractive or wanted to have sth with a guy I’ve always been attracted by girls.. i think Long Time need to pass in order for this thing to totally fade away..
     
  3. need4realchg

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    Ditto. Almost exact experience as @topilabv .

    3 encounters , I had some curiosities with shemale but bringing them to life killed it for me even before I started nofap.

    It’s one things of a screen another in front of you. You can do it.

    I don’t know what hocd means though.
     
  4. topilabv

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    It means Homosexual Compulsive Disorder. Basically, you start to have intruisive thoughts about your sexuality and start to question it for some reason (mostly porn). You realize the thoughts are not true but they still stick in your mind.
     
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    And also you're definitely right @need4realchg for the encounters. I can't say I didn't enjoy the experience with them but was definitely not like on the computer. In real they do look more like men and aren't that feminine or beautiful at all.
     
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  6. need4realchg

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    Ahhh thanks for the explanation. I personally believe what we watch affects us. It has to.
     
  7. 19m

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    hey guys i’m getting worried . ok when i was watching tv these people came up and stuff they were men and stuff and wasn’t thinking sexually or anything but my penis grew a tad bit but it wasn’t arousal . is this normal ? should i worry ? or is this not normal ? and ive been addicted to pine for like 6 years but i’m on day 17
     
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  8. SpringWater

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    I saw a few transgender people recently and they look totally like dudes. I wasn’t turned on in the least.

    Unlike how being around girls that might not even be that attractive can sometimes get me turned on if certain elements are in play “just done with gym” say or late at night at the club.

    So you guys are right about the videos being diff then real life.

    I relapsed yesterday but stuck with vanilla stuff and don’t have that “prob hamgover” or bad intrusive thoughts today. I think it’s when we watch that stuff we know isn’t our true tastes that we mess ourselves up and start to really be brainwashed.

    (I want to say all porn is bad, even vanilla stuff...but those of us that get hooked and have to get more extreme for the dopamine kick really get messed up I think)
     
  9. SpringWater

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    Yes I thinks it’s just all those years watching poem and seeing dudes doing sexual things..linking that to being aroused..good reason to stop watching porn.

    Also when you stop watching porn weird shit will arouse you, like your brain is searching for some way to get that dopamine kick.
     
  10. locomia

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    I reccomend you 3 days of abstaining computer and internet browsing,and durign this time,write in a paper,what led you to indulge this,be serious and true,maybe you dont know what to write.But at least youll be healing your brain for stimulus,and noises,and mindless stuff and garbage in your head,to think better where you going
     
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    Also why you like transgender ? maybe because you want to approach the homosexual area,but in small steps so you try to start with something "straight" like the figured body of a woman in a man,thats the problem here.Or Im wrong? Or maybe you like some attributes of woman because youre straight,but still confused,but you naturally was straight,the porn indulged you in these stuff.
     
  12. 19m

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    if your talking to me no i’ve always liked women it only came that way when i was heavily addicted .
     
  13. Abetterbrain

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    So many! From what i see on here. I can’t believe how many.
     
  14. need4realchg

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    Yeah same. Homosexual porn is not designed for the audience that is mystified by the shemale complex.
    It’s really the gender confusion that attracts.

    In my case it’s connected to two events , one my first sexual experience was with a cousin at 10, and it was a week at grandmas. All anal. Lol. Looking at it this reads like a porn title.

    But the issue for me was I was very protected from sex Ed, I didn’t know much about women until I was in my teens. I had dreams that I tried to understand the female gender but without info , I just filled in the blanks with the male info I already knew.
     
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  15. porsche4life

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    Well if you say they look more like men why do you say that you can't say you didn't really enjoy the experience?
     
  16. need4realchg

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    Perfect question. Because In real life you do more than look. On a website you only look.

    I didn’t say they looked more like men. I said the physical realm of dealing with a person broke the fantasy. It’s harder to objectify a person when you interact with them, respect them , understand their peculiarities.

    Sorry to be graphic for me it was seeing the penis , holding it , it changed from curious to “ this is way too masculine too real”.
     
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  17. AngeZarate10

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    porn and perversion leads you to try absurd things ...
    I also knew a woman who was previously a man (but I can assure you that he confused you)
    it is the curiosity that leads you to try, if you have always been with women do not worry ..
     
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  18. InnerFaith

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    trans porn was one of my favorites too, been with trans escorts as well..
    im atracted to females, mostly watched and preferd real women, but i had alot of desire for trans..
    i dont know.. i dont do nofap to "rehab" from being atracted to them, i belive i will always be atracted..
    my regret is going to escorts, and also fapping to escorts (porn).. i would much rather meet a transgender as a person and not as a sex object, and then see how it goes..
     
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  19. porsche4life

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    Well I unfortanelty got addicted to this genre as well, but I've been making progress. I am a virgin, but irl I am only atreated to women and tranny porn is just an addiction. Can't see myself being with them, not even an escort, partly because I'm transphobic and partly because a penis besides my own repulses me.
     
  20. starsky2

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    Gay porn all my life
     
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