Sexual thoughts

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by MrBrive, Jun 10, 2019.

  1. MrBrive

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    Hey guys,

    Currently on day 47 of nofap.

    I still sometimes get weird sexual thoughts. It really annoys me, because I'm like wtf why did I just think of that??

    More people experience unwanted sexual thoughts? Anyone on a far streak that noticed it going away at some point?

    Thanks,

    MrBrive
     
  2. hollyman

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    Actually im on day 90 and im batling with it right now...

    My strategies are : get a new hobby that i can carry when im alone,,, im thinking abbiut drawing tho so its can distracs me when the its happen
     
  3. Jackb97

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    Aren't males, in fact all humans supposed to have sexual thoughts?
     
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  4. MrBrive

    MrBrive Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, but like porn like, weird sexual thoughts.
     
  5. Jackb97

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    I guess. Depends how weird tbh aha.
     
  6. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    No singles either marry or remain free from sexual temptation, which includes sexual thought. Why do you think you need to allow sexual temptation? It only leads to grief. Who's taught you that? Find me at Group Christian Fapstronauts.
     
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  7. Jackb97

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    because that's how humans make other humans.
     
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  8. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    It's a normal thing to happen. I'm at day 200+ and it still happens to me. Just snap out of it by paying attention to your surroundings.
     
  9. My thoughts exactly. We're supposed to want to have sex, and a lot of it! :D And oh by the way if you want to bring religion into this, even God wants you to have plenty of sex within marriage, so there pretty much went that argument. He knows we have that desire because He built it into us! :rolleyes:
     
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  10. Jackb97

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    I think if god popped down to say hello he'd be fine with sex outside of marriage tbh. He knows the times, they are changing.
     
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  11. I think so too, I was just trying to prove a point without going too far outside of what the Bible actually says. I think God has better things to concern Himself with than people having sex. People tend to get this twisted idea in their head that if you're religious, that means you're a prude. Some are, but I've meant plenty who aren't, including myself. :cool:
     
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  12. stands to reason

    stands to reason Fapstronaut

    You make a good point. Many people talk fast, and don't read slow. Let us agree to be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath. A single person has no legitimate right in sexual pleasure. Sexual lust is sin.
     
  13. Lust isn't just desire though. Lust is the intention to act solely on that desire. God created us to have this kind of desire, after all, how else would we find a wife?

    Furthermore, sexual pleasure is meant by God to be experienced freely in marriage. In fact, it is the duty of each the man and the woman to fulfill the others sexual desire.

    Here are a few verses on the matter.

    the husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Corinthians 7:3-4

    Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. Corinthians 7:5
     
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  14. Curry

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    This happens to me all the time. Only thing you can do is distract yourself. The more you think about it, the more you want to relapse
     
  15. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    It's just a thought. Every person on Earth gets those sometimes
     

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