In my 40's, married for over 8 years and with kids, in good health and love my wife. My sexual performance anxiety has been on and off for several years, but I have always been able to overcome it. At some point, thanks to NoFap and other similar sites, I realized that my ED was due to Porn Addiction, so I stopped watching porn. It was not easy, had some falls here and there, but now, 2 years after, I have been able to manage it pretty well. Really don't know if I have a high libido or I am addicted to sex, but I have always had a very sex drive. On the other hand, my wife is more interested in other things than having sex or just dedicating time to engage romantically with me. For instance she doesn't want to kiss in the morning because she feels her mouth is disgusting, then when we kiss is like she doesn't put any passion at all. For instance this morning: the kids being away, I was trying to engage with her, rubbing her stomach and body, but she was laying there and not engaging. That made me mad and I stopped paying attention to her. Meanwhile, when I go to places or hang out with friends, talking with women that are in the circle is easy, so I notice their sexuality, their interest they show to me and how I can easily get their numbers. In the past, I have acted on it and then I have felt guilty and horrible. After 2 years of having stopped Porn, I started to feel really good about myself, my erections were rock hard, I could fuck my wife in a a heart beat, so my level of euphoria was through the roof. Then, sex with her wasn't enough, because I started to notice all her downfalls, like: complete lack of spontaneity, lack of interest or demonstration of affection, shave before we do it, don't squeeze my butt cheeks too much, I don't want you to touch my asshole, don't this, don't that... So I went online on a rampage and started to communicate with several women at the same time. Didn't act on it, because I felt bad again. Then this is the time when my friend left me again! so now its very difficult to get hard and I know that its sexual performance anxiety. Has anyone dealt with this in the past? How has overcome it?