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sex without lust

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by autonut, Jan 14, 2019.

  1. autonut

    autonut Fapstronaut

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    I think this dilemma can be best analyzed through addiction to porn. Porn in and of itself is not a bad thing (two people procreating is essential for humans to continue to exist).

    But the issue happens when we obsess over the process of procreation and try to capture it into a neat video format that we can possess anywhere we go to experience the "high" of that event over and over again. To the point that it becomes an obsession that disables us from doing anything else. I would like to call this state of imprisonment "Lust", and separate it from the healthy attitude towards things that does not force us into a prison of Lust/obsession.

    But how can I be sure that I am out of the prison of Lust when doing anything? Especially sex, which seems to be mostly Lust driven... Could it somehow not be a fetish to be consumed/overtaken by, but rather something more pure/natural? (not an obsession..?)
     
  2. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    I think with porn becoming part of ones life, I dont think when they do sex it's pure intimacy. It's more like recreating what is shown in porns. With porn, I think people devalue the nature of sex.
     
  3. ReclaimedLife

    ReclaimedLife Fapstronaut

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    Good Sex can be like Sex you see in Porn.
    Good Sex can be like Sex you don't see in Porn.
    But in order to enjoy Sex, you should let go of Porn and the way sex is portrayed there. Trust me the benefits are amazing once you find th right woman to sleep with pornstyle and romantically.
     

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