I have dealt and still do deal with the issue with not being able to have sex because of PIED. I went through 2 women and multiple times had the issue to the point of not being able to have sex at all. These relationships ended because of it. It was painful to me, but at the same time I can understand it. Relationships require sex. I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 10 months now. She is very understanding and we've been able to have sex in our relationship. Not as often due to me having anxiety of not being able to perform as I like and not performing to the degree that I like, because of weak boners. Of course like most of you I can still have a normal erection with porn. I have stopped with porn, but it's taking time in order to gain back my normal erections. However, I have come across something that I find that I should consider. This may not be entirely PIED. I think that it could partly be die to my girlfriend not being attractive enough to me. Most of you would look at her and think I'm crazy, because she is very pretty. She wants sex too. However, she is lacking in what matters most to me. A great ass. I need a woman with a great ass. She can have an okay looking face, no tits, but a great ass and I'll be happy. I also like a woman with a stronger sexual drive. I have had a woman like this and I loved that about her. I just couldn't stand her personality. She was so fucking hot and a aggressive sex drive...just annoying personality. She caused me to get erections consistently! Even just talking on the phone turned me on, because she was so damn fine. This current girlfriend is a great personality, but not sexually what I want. My thoughts are I have PIED, but I may need a more attractive woman in my eyes to arouse me.