Sex, handjobs or blowjobs during reboot?

Absolutely, completely, 100% true!
I have recent experience with my current girlfriend with this one. I told her straight up at the beginning that I'm recovering PMO addict in reboot at the moment, explained what rebooting really means and that I am not necessarily be able to perform in the sack at my best (or at all) at this moment but I will get there eventually, and she understood and accepted me completely with all my flaws. I also told her about my fetishes and as it turned out, she's into same things too!!
It was quite wonderful experience to be able to be 100% honest about who and what I am and be accepted as one. To be true, I had to go through several relationships before I found this woman, but in the end it was well worth it. My honesty also gave her a chance and courage to be completely honest about her desires first time in her life and to be accepted as who she really is without being judged, and that really bonded us two together in a ways I couldn't imagine ever before.

I'm not perfect, and neither is she. But as long we can be honest and open about our shortcomings without being judged by one another, we can have truly fulfilling relationship together.

So @alex4444, don't waste your time with someone who's not worth your time or the effort. If the juice is not worth the squeeze, you gotta move on. She's not the only girl in the world and there's definitely someone much, much better for you out there.
Trust me Bro and have faith

- Mike

 

My thoughts exactly Bro!
This is a perfect way to shit-test her and see whether she's worth you or not. That was also my thinking when I decided to be upfront with my gal, and as it turned out, it was the right thing to do.

Go get what you desire and deserve. My thoughts are with you Bro.

 

I agree that reboots must be discussed (not negotiated) with your romantic partner(s). PMO has affected your relationship, and if you want to be a leader, you have to provide her the correct information about what's going on. Otherwise, she'll be left to imagine some reason why you won't have sex with her.

I'll also highly recommend you stop judging your fetish as bad or shameful, and any partner of yours that's worth your time, will at least accept your fetish, if not fulfill it.

I have my own (different) kinks, and if a woman isn't going to participate, then she's not qualified to be a romantic partner.

 

Well first i'd say Shame itself isnt a bad emotion in making u recognize something is a bad idea to feed. That being said u shouldnt let it get too far. And in my experience/opinion , how ur gf reacts or would react about nofap is very telling of the relationship. Mines was pretty nice about it. I mean u dont have to get into so much details but u dont have to lie either. U can explain nofap from a scientific, spiritual,will power, challenge, whatever u think is best but generally its to improve urself and be a better bf.

In regards to ur question. I'd highly suggest u stay away from handjobs but the rest is fine if u can control urself after or at the very least if ur gf is fine with regular sex. It depends on the reasons ur rebooting tho. If ur in a GOOD relationship its more healthy I think to keep the bond with her. If not, sometimes it makes it harder cuz the sex with her might not be satisfying or worse it actually gets stressful. And now u need an escape from someone who is supposed to help u with that.

I'd imagine the fetish makes u feel weak or less of a man. Maybe it is submissive or gay or something. Fetishes arent necessarily evil, its that porn abuses em. So if its a relatively implementable fetish, it doesnt degrade anyone much, u can ask ur gf to do or wear it or whatever. Again if its a reasonable request and she declines then again its a sign ur in the wrong relationship.

I'd also u say make sure u have actually thought about when this fetish got more addictive, if it coincides with ur relationship. then u might wanna quit porn and her. But idk u or her, im just saying look at the reality of the situation, don't let ur feelings or her words distract u from what might be actually happening.

 

Oh ya guess it was homo. Well it helps if u understand exactly why its a fetish and then take out it's legs. Hows ur relationship with ur father? Do u have positive masculine energy in ur life? Do you have positive male role models? is that u wish to be dominated?

 

oh the whole cuck thing , ya erm ... that might be more porn related than u would think. aight gl bro.

 

Me and my girlfriend are sexually active and I find that having those relations with her helps abstain me from engaging in P and M and it helps reduce those urges.