Sex addiction masked my depression for my entire life

Yup, it's like I'm living a whole different life now. It's kind of scary how easily I'm triggered into these bouts of anxiety and depression, and the first thing I want to do is reach down there and go to town every time I start feel bad about myself. I think that this nofap thing sort of triggered a mid life crisis for me.

 

I suspect the trick is to find something to feel the void when you give up some addiction such as drinking or PMO or even internet use.

Like you could spend your free time watching TV or taking a walk outside. Both choices give you some recreation today, but the walk outside has long term benefits too. You need to find things that give you pleasure and also give you benefits.

 

Yep 25 days in and been feeling exactly like you guys. Had a very difficult 3.5 weeks but some days have been alright, depending how much I dwell on it.

The more we support each other through this the better. It is really motivating to hear when one of us has had a good and positive day.

We need to relax knowing we are
doing the right thing now. Nofap is a really good site that has our best interest at heart

 

Could be a flatline but I do not want to pass the problem off as "just a flatline" because their are many phases (both generally and individually) to NoFap, that could ultimately make the reasons for such feelings a result of various factors.

 

Yeah. Like any activity that acts as a crutch, they can disguise problems or contain them under the surface until you stop doing that activity or reach a healthy moderation point. Talking to a professional educated on porn and sex addiction might be able to help make sense of these things if you haven't already

 

Keep going going bro.