I am a petite, very feminine 22 year old transgendered woman who has been on NoFap (with two handles @Jamie_K_ and an earlier @Jamie_K ). I am glad NoFap added this category as it describes my issues much better than "porn-addiction". Spoiler: My ADDICTIONS I am a recovering sex addict, and frankly, my use of porn was not so much to "get off" but rather to come up with ideas I could do with my boyfriends and sugar-daddies. And I had them because my real and true deep-seated addiction is with compulsive fashion and obtaining it by any means. My 3 main challenges, all interlinked and interwoven, are / were Spoiler: details (1) sex addiction, (2) compulsive fashion shopping and (3) using porn for ideas and motivation in real-life, acting-out scenarios with one or more men. I have overcome my sex addiction by abstaining from dating anyone for the past almost-year (I only just started back dating again recently). But being away from the continual positive-reinforcement feed of sex and men admiring me was very necessary. I needed to stop being an object and learn to be a person. My compulsive fashion-shopping is now mostly under control, but it was the HARDEST thing to give up and get in control about. It was/is so easy to find a wealthy and generous sugar-daddy (or, in my case, multiple SD's buying me stiff all the time). These guys would provide massive shopping sprees in return for Spoiler: fashion addiction sex, fantasy sex, fetish fulfillmnet, and I wanted the stuff so much that it was easy to give these older guys that wild-n-crazy fantasy life with a tiny sexy submissive (but massively manipulative) Asian sugar-baby. So, learning to (i) stop using and manipulating men to buy me expensive things, and to (ii) stop thinking of myself as a walking Asian Barbie-doll in the latest outfits and heels has been the most difficult thing to do. Really. Giving up men and sex was easier than giving up shopping. Guys have NO IDEA the costs of things ---- a good LV bag is $5k, a Birkin bag in +$50k!!! Louboutin or Zanotti heels run from $1k to $5k per pair!!!! And Tiffany jewelry? The sky is not even the limit!!! So I stopped the sugar-daddy gigs. Yet, once I stopped dating sugar-daddies (about 14 months ago) in order to keep my habit of expensive fashion consumption going I briefly went back to another old bad-habit --- and that was to do Spoiler: options live, online Chaterbate sex shows to get that extra spending money (the money is easy and flows in great quantities). I made enough each week on only a few well-timed shows to easily purchase tons of pretty heels and bags and stuff. Yet, I gave that up, again, as it was just wrong and I found my "private" sessions I did for paying customers posted all over on the common porn-sites for men: Xhamster, PornHub---and it is impossible to get your videos off the internet once they go viral. One of the guys I worked with actually mentioned "I saw you on PornHub last night...." and began to creep me out. But I quit and I now have that under control too. No need for tons of limitless fashion. Lastly, I have totally conquered the porn-as-motivation for acting-out with lovers. I can't go into it deeply here, but suffice to say THAT was really easy once I got past about 45 days on no PMO> Anyway, that is a pretty boring post. LOL.