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Severe PIED and zero libido, porn has devastated me, please help

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Ji83j, Dec 24, 2018.

  1. Ji83j

    Ji83j Fapstronaut

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    Hello,

    I am new here and this is my first post, I know all about the terminology such as pied and edging and pmo through scrolling though things like reddit about this topic but its nice to see a site specifically dedicated to this.

    I've been addicted to porn since maybe 11 or 12 and I am now nearly 27. I have never had a girlfriend and my only sexual experiences are with escorts, but I am still a virgin because I've never once been able to get an erection whatsoever, not any movement whatsoever, not even a semi, nothing, dead. Attempting vaginal penetration is simply a foreign concept to me. I've been to my doctor and everything is fine blood flow wise and I know 99% of doctors know nothing about NoFap or how porn can do this.

    How can I fix this?? I mean to have a nude woman in front of me and not have any movement whatsoever on numerous occasions? (I've seen dozens of escorts)

    Is it as easy as stopping masturbating to porn? I've been masturbating anywhere over 6 times a day since I was a child.
     
  2. This is quite a severe case. I’m willing to bet the answer for you is the same answer for the rest of us though. You must stop looking at porn and you must try to stop masturbating for a period of time. I know that’s easier said than done but as far as we know that’s the only solution.
     
  3. Peiskos

    Peiskos Fapstronaut

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    Cutting out all porn and masurbation is the only cure. Do not even touch your penis with the exception of bathing and using the washroom.

    Your full recovery could take 1+ year. It will be a tough road to get there but it will be so very worth it when you reach that final destination. You are correct about the pied, you have conditioned yourself to the point that you can only get erections to porn on a pixelated screen and not reality.

    The good thing is that your brain is able to rewire/reboot to factory settings so to speak, you just need to have the effort and determination to climb that mountain. You’re at 0 feet, you need to climb and it begins now and when you do it will feel just as satisfying if not more satisfying as when climbers actual people ascend Everest.
     
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  4. bloomz

    bloomz Fapstronaut

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    6x a day? No joke? Very extreme. But I agree with the others try no PMO you will eventually get there.
     
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  5. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    you have devastated yourself man. If you have a nice streak you'll start recovering for sure!
     

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