Self improvement OR self destruction?

This may sound a little weird but... today i met another dude doing nofap for 2 damn years. I had a friend (not anymore) ALSO doing nofap for 2 years. Then i also knew a dude fapping just like every 30. Day.

Whats really interesting: one of them is kind of a weirdo creep (doesnt seem like hes got self esteem or anything), my other old friend actually ISNT my friend anymore because of his creepyness (he was so damn arrogant, i could have barely talk to him, even tho i knew him for 3 years). The third one doing it occasionaly also seems like a weirdo (plus hes a virgin).

Now, im really not a guy that puts everyone in a casket. Im sure there are guys that could gain alot of discipline from NoFap on here. Like "they did nofap, they are creeps, so everyone in this forum is"... nonono i dont do that.

I just want to hear from you guys, how this can happen. Id say ok, if it was one guy i met. But 3 dudes i know kinda good, all of them are weird, and all of them telling me they nofap for several months/years. Kinda random isnt it?

 

Uhh good question. I guess nerdy would be the right term. Talking very fast, do not act like men, making jokes that arent funny. Just this kind of weirdness. And the creepyness comes with a lack of social intelligence (not sure if thats the right word)

Anyways, why im caring about it: im also on here ofc to not masturbate anymore. One of the main reason im doing it is because of the myth that goes around, that you'll gain alot of confidence. While i can probably get over my disgusting fetishes doing nofap, i cant really believe in those myths - gaining confidence trough not masturbating - anymore. Some even say their voice got deeper.

Thanks. That was kind of my theory. The internet tells guys all they need to do is stop masturbating and it'll solve all their problems. I think thats a lie. A creep needs to change his whole Lifestyle to not be creepy anymore.

 

You are a good person anyway. No matter if you Fap or NoFap. But life is a process and learning to control sexdrive is part of it in our society.