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Seeking advice

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Lonely poe, Jan 16, 2017.

  1. Lonely poe

    Lonely poe Fapstronaut

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    Been trying real.hard to quit porn. Fighting with a lot of things alongside that. Many problems with my wife is one of them. However,I am fighting. Was on my sixth day.Had huge urges to PMO. I was fighting. But a while ago,I was sleeping and I was having a very normal kinda dream. At the end of this dream I kinda ejaculated. I feel awful. I didn't even do it on purpose. Pls anyone tell me.what to do about this thing.
     
  2. Ajar

    Ajar Fapstronaut
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    Wet dreams technically do not count as a break. Its actually normal, and means you are progressing. Your mind is in a sense "detoxing" from the common hyper-sexual lifestyle. No worries, just proceed bro.
     
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  3. Lonely poe

    Lonely poe Fapstronaut

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    Wow... relief
    .. Thank.you... but if they keep.happening what do I do?
     
  4. Kennen

    Kennen Fapstronaut

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    When I was a new fapstronaut, one of my goal is to have a wet dream because it also means that you have a progress.. Good job for your progress.

    Aside from cleaning the fluid ;), you don't have to do anything.. It's only natural to have wet dreams because you stopped fapping. It's a natural way to release.
     
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  5. Lonely poe

    Lonely poe Fapstronaut

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    U know what? I am so relieved to hear all these replies
    Thank you
     
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  6. ILoathePorn

    ILoathePorn Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    @Lonely poe it sounds like you are on the right track. Keep up the great work. This is a tough addiction to overcome. Take one day at a time and be patient. Keep up the great work! Stay strong!
     
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  7. Lonely poe

    Lonely poe Fapstronaut

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    I am trying. Life isn't making it any easier. It seems all my problems have begun as soon as I started on this journey... :(
     
  8. ILoathePorn

    ILoathePorn Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    Life is unfair. Life will throw curve balls at you from every direction. This journey will be a long one but one well worth it. I would recommend starting a journal if you haven't yet. Then you can analyze your thoughts and feelings and keep track of your progress. I would also suggest that you continue to educate yourself about PMO addiction. There are some links in my signature that can help you as well. It will get better, just give it some time and take one day at a time. Stay strong!
     
  9. Rion008

    Rion008 Fapstronaut

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    U can actually cultivate urself to nearly eliminate nocturnal emissions/wet dreams through practices such as Tao sex alchemy where u convert more of the energy to nourish and feed ur entire body/chi and organs. U can store/hold a lot of sexual power without wet dreams leaking that life force away through cultivation. It's what I've done.

    This can be done through different practices like kegels, breathing, chi kung and so forth. Master Mantak Chia is where to go online. Just keep in mind that it might conflict or even threaten the value of any active reboot that u are on (for anyone reading) so be aware of that. With that said; practices can be done without what would be classified as 'M'-Class here :)
     

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