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Secret or truth

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by IwantReborn, Jan 8, 2019.

  1. IwantReborn

    IwantReborn Fapstronaut

    I would like advice from the community. Do you think it would be right to talk about this addiction with the girlfriend? How could a girl react after knowing that her boyfriend has this problem for many years? Would you feel betrayed? Better to cure me without saying anything?
     
  2. Queen_Of_Hearts_13

    Queen_Of_Hearts_13 Fapstronaut

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    Tell her or leave her. If you don't tell you you are hurting her worse. It's one thing to be an addict, but a whole other world to be seen as a liar. If you're honest, it will be painful, but she will think of you as honest. All if not most SO's will tell you the truth is what is needed. Lies and gaslighting cause us betrayal trauma.
     
  3. How are you planning on working your recovery? In secret? So, that's one more secret to add to the list.

    I agree with the above responders.

    Peace,
    -Quinn
     
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