Rewireing and oral sex

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by watertank, Jun 11, 2019.

  1. watertank

    watertank Fapstronaut

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    So, I'm 18 and have been struggling w pied or at least think it's pied for over a year and half. After going 97 days on hard mode, I started getting my libido back. Tn I got head. Things seemed to be going well, I got it up, but I came very quickly (within 1.5 minutes). I've been friends with this girl for a long time, and this is not the first time I've done something like this with her(note: I've only ever gotten oral sex from her). She asked if I wanted to come over tomorrow and I said yes. (I'm assuming to do more sexual stuff). However I don't think she wants to have straight vaginal sex because weve been friends for so long. Does anyone have any advice related to oral sex and the rewiring process?
     
  2. el10

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    Hi brother,

    My experience has been the same than yours, I was suffering PIED and, after a long streak, I came very quickly and quite a lot in the first time. In the following ones, it started to get back to normal, although I last shorter than when I was doing PMO, but basically, sex is much better without PMO.
     
  3. watertank

    watertank Fapstronaut

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  4. el10

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    Well, I think we should be aware that sex is going to be different now, after quitting PMO.

    Before: last longer and more difficult to get hard and cum
    After: last shorter and easier to get hard and cum

    Anyway, I think that first time after a long streak is the worst, if you repeat today (2 days in a row) you will last longer for sure :)
     
  5. Klici

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    1.5 min is not so bad for first time oral with new girl.
    Anyway girls like when guys cum fast during oral.
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  6. Sileon

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    Hi, brother,
    I think it's due to the fact that you know little about your sexual habits WITHOUT P. Until now you have known how to reach orgasm seeing the videos, but you still don't know how to "function" when you have sex with a partner. In any case, 1.5 minutes is not a little time
     
  7. watertank

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    Thanks for the insight, So i havnt actually done anything else yet. Ive been getting less spontaneous erections since, which is makeing me nervous. However, she said shes down to hook up tomorrow, so well see how things develop!
     
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  8. Theninjathatjokes

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    So is it safe to assume that your PIED is cured? I've been doing a lot of research on the matter myself since I'm 18 and have the same issues...But there has been no solid evidence that PIED will be cured by doing nofap on hard mode..I'm gonna definitely stick to the challenge nonetheless,but it will be a lot better if I could know that there is hope and that my PIED will be cured by doing nofap on hard mode
     
  9. el10

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    Yes, my PIED is totally gone! In fact, that is one of the best benefits of NoFap. I'm 33 so I'm quite older than you and I'm married, so when I was into PMO I suffered PIED many times when having sex with my wife and I thought it was because of my age or because of the routine of marriage. But I was wrong, it was because of PMO. Now I can get hard with just a kiss or just seeing her in underwear.

    You are still young man, don't PMO anymore and you'll see all the benefits, your PIED will be cured, you will be much more attractive to women, your self-confidence will be higher...
     
  10. Theninjathatjokes

    Theninjathatjokes Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a great deal,that really helps!
     
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  11. watertank

    watertank Fapstronaut

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    After 100 days of no pmo , I started M and O again to rewire, but strictly no Porn. Im definitely still not cured but im optimistic, any advice for rewirieng?
     

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