REMINDER: Please place relapses in “Reset and Relapse Reports”

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Moderation Team, Sep 22, 2017.

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  1. Moderation Team

    Moderation Team Announcement Account Staff Member

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    All,

    The Moderation Team requests that all users respect the posting guidelines and place posts that are for resets/relapses into the correct section.

    Thank you.
     
  2. dsr81

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    I don't exactly get why there is a separate section for resets and relapses. Wouldn't I just put those into my journal?

    Also, your first "Quick Link" is dead.
     
  3. _-OutKast-_

    _-OutKast-_ New Fapstronaut

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    How do you reset you PMO tracker??? :D
     
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  4. LovelyLukas

    LovelyLukas Guest

    I'm wondering how to do that too^
     
  5. Hsac

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    How to search a journal or thread
     
  6. CrashTestDummy

    CrashTestDummy Fapstronaut

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    Where is the forum for
    “Reset and Relapse Reports”
     
  7. Jaqen_H'ghar

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  8. I have to agree with @dsr81, I don't see a reason to have relapses in a seperate forum.
     
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  9. R2Bees

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    Gotta say im disappointed with myself. So im had a nap this afternoon and on waking up, i find that i had a wet dream. Is this normal for someone trying to quit masturbation addiction?
     
  10. dsr81

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    Yep! I get them somewhat regularly (maybe every two weeks) if it's been a while since masturbating. Some people on here seem to try to repress them by waking up or something, but I figure discharging sperm is a normal bodily function and nothing to worry about.
     
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  11. Karl (N0 PM0)

    Karl (N0 PM0) New Fapstronaut

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    You press on (Youre Profile Page) then on (Information) and scroll down :)
     
  12. Karl (N0 PM0)

    Karl (N0 PM0) New Fapstronaut

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    I have diferent periods but right now i cant go more than four days without a wet dream and i feel bad about it because nothing ruins a day more for me than waking up totaly empty of sexual energy
     
  13. R2Bees

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    Its been 2 days since i last masturbated, my sexual drive to masturbate is somewhat really high and it could be the reason why. Anyway would you by any chance know how I'll be able to reset my tracker?
     
  14. dsr81

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    Click on "Update Day Counter" in the black navigation bar at the top of the page.
     
  15. I Am that I Am

    I Am that I Am Fapstronaut

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    I think it is valuable to be separate because we learn so much more from failure than we do success.

    Actually success is not even a teacher only learning from failure can bring you to understand.
     
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  16. I Am that I Am

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    I didn't mean to sound pessimistic my friend.

    Surely some successful people make great teachers. However ask them how many times they failed.

    I have about a dozen quotes I could share to hone down what I mean here.

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      “I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”
      Thomas A. Edison

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      “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
      Winston S. Churchill
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      “I can't give you a sure-fire formula for success, but I can give you a formula for failure: try to please everybody all the time.”
      Herbert Bayard Swope
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      “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”
      Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
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      “Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor.”
      Truman Capote
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      “Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door. ”
      Coco Chanel
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      “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”
      Maya Angelou
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      “To err is human, to forgive, divine.”
      Alexander Pope, An Essay on Criticism
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      “My fault, my failure, is not in the passions I have, but in my lack of control of them.”
      Jack Kerouac
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      “It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.”
      Theodore Roosevelt
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      “All of old. Nothing else ever. Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”
      Samuel Beckett, Worstward Ho
    Actually the dozenth spoke of the way of the thinking man, for whom both success and failure are equal teachers, at least that's what Nietzsche said.
     
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    ขอบคุณมากครับสำหรับความรู้ เป็นประโยชน์ มากๆ เลย :AO

     
  20. Nebula888

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    Wanted to share something with you all. I've been addicted to MO since 8 years old. When I hit 11, the addiction included the P. I have been addicted to PMO since. It has ruined a lot of things for me especially the way I look at sex. I am happy that I stumbled across this group and felt that I wasn't alone in this struggle. I attempted to reboot and was 21 days in. I slept with a FWB and I thought "hey its normal sex so I should still be on track with my goal of 30 days. The next day after the encounter, I was feeling OK but the I started feeling a strong urge to masturbate again. I read somewhere on this site about the chaser effect and finally succumbed to my urges yesterday where I masturbated 4 times while watching porn during the day. My masturbation is also not your normal type of masturbation, I masturbate pronated rubbing against something hard. After this relapse I felt like absolute sh## and my d**k was bruised from the activity. I reset my counter last night and will try again. I will stop seeing this girl and I will do my very best to remove any triggers that may seduce me. My goal is to reach 30 days without PMO. Thanks for listening and best of luck to us all.
     
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