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Relapsing and money issues

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by jakost, Jan 21, 2017.

  1. Jan 21, 2017 #1
    jakost

    jakost New Fapstronaut

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    Well dear friends

    I have relapsed many times in the past few weeks and hence haven't been on here for a while. My issue is not so much masturbating (although that's a part of it) or porn per se (although thats a part of it), but those damn webcam pay sites. I literally printed out my bank and credit card statements for the past few years and realized I was more than 20,000 dollars in the hole! The thing is, for a day or two, thinking of this astronomical waste of money helps.

    But when the urge comes somehow my mind gets over this and tells me, well its only extra 30 bucks and you will stop later. And yet, even at that moment I know, I KNOW, that this is bullshit, that this is how the addiction works, and yet I do it.

    I make pretty decent money, and I am moving now to a new place, and am scraping by at the bottom of my checking account to pay for basic things. It makes me so damn angry at myself, which makes me so depressed, which makes me hate myself, which makes me want to do it again. It is a vicious cycle and I have no clue how to break it.
     
    jakost, Jan 21, 2017
    jakost, Jan 21, 2017
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  2. Jan 21, 2017 #2
    Mankrik

    Mankrik Fapstronaut

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    Hard to break such a habit initially, but you can. Find something that motivates you and work towards it by doing nofap HC no pmo. For me personally having never been with a girl, I have decided to not ejaculate again until I find a partner. Surprisingly my mindset has changed and I am not desparate for sex any more after the rewiring I have experienced. I have the courage to talk to girls now; something my former self never even considered. You can change and you will be happy when you do. Be the person you want to be and use logic to overcome your addiction - its just not worth it, all the time and money wasted - forget about the past and look for a brighter future. Im here for you bro.
     
    Mankrik, Jan 21, 2017
    Mankrik, Jan 21, 2017
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