Relapsed again

Discussion in 'Women in Reboot' started by Lively gr of yesterday, Dec 18, 2018.

  1. Lively gr of yesterday

    Lively gr of yesterday Fapstronaut

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    I feel teally bad i relapsed again yesterday and again today i dont know what to do i cant get through this i cant concentrate on anything my premedical enterance exams are coming but i cant concentrate on them all i ever do reading novels sleeping or watching movies i dont feel like studying anymore i dont know what to do even my parents are really sad about slipping grades and are presuurising to do better i feel really sad and depressed please tell me better to battle it
     
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  2. GhostWriter

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    Is medical school your dream or theirs?
     
  3. Lively gr of yesterday

    Lively gr of yesterday Fapstronaut

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    Earlier it was now i seriously dont know but as both of my parents are doctors themselves so they want me to be one also
     
  4. Max Dudent

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    I think you have to do a reality check. Do you want to pursue medicine or not? Is it laziness that is preventing you from studying? You have ask yourself these questions because otherwise you will end up putting in half an effort with a bad result. I have gone through this myself, where you end up turning to PMO to deal with other stressful issues. If you like medicine, just remember that doctor is not the only profession, even nursing is a good profession. Just remember you have a whole community here to support you in times of frustration. Exercise is also a good alternate.
     
  5. john1780

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    Think of it like this one week of you trying your best no pmo study hard could change your whole life,think hard on every moment if it would better or worsen your life if it is a waste of time or good use of time,think back on your relapses and what your triggers are and try to avoid them.
     
  6. Lively gr of yesterday

    Lively gr of yesterday Fapstronaut

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    Thanks maybe it is really laziness preventing me moreover these i dont tend to think straight
     
  7. GhostWriter

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    That would be the wrong reason to pursue it. I concur on the reality check. This your life. Not theirs. They cannot live vicariously through yours.
     
  8. Lively gr of yesterday

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    Sure but i dont really like disappointing my parents moreover im afraid to question their choices too
     
  9. GhostWriter

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    Are you disappointed in the livelihood they have chosen for you?
     
  10. Lively gr of yesterday

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    Sometimes i do feel like quiting
     
  11. Max Dudent

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    Whatever profession you choose, you have to have a strong motivation for it. That would lead to the best result. But, in any case, definitely do not fall into the trap of PMO as a release of stress. Block yourself from that route by creating different alternates.
     
  12. GhostWriter

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    I think you need to take this upcoming break to do some serious soul searching young lady. You have got to do this for you. No one else. Else you’re going to wake up one day wondering “what the hell am I doing here”. Like I said. This is YOUR life.
     
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  13. EmmyB

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    Best way I've found to stop M or even edging is this. I think of my clitoris as the enemy. It temps me to do things that waste my energy and take me down bad paths. So I don't touch it, don't let it get aroused, try to have nothing to do with it. Honestly, it works!
     
  14. Prov2416

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    @Lively gr of yesterday

    As a 42 year old married man, this is my humble opinion. You should SERIOUSLY consider the advice you have been given on this conversation.

    PM is a quick fix, but it does not address the core emotions / feelings we are dealing with.

    Being in school, living up to parents expectations, and unsure career can be VERY tense. You have got to take the time to sort this all out.

    Find some people you can reach out to and talk about it.

    Please consider this strongly.
     
  15. Lively gr of yesterday

    Lively gr of yesterday Fapstronaut

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    sure
     
  16. Lively gr of yesterday

    Lively gr of yesterday Fapstronaut

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    thanks for the advice will surely consider it
     
  17. Lively gr of yesterday

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    DAY 3
    hi guys its the 3rd of NoFap and im already feeling that its quite hard I truely feel disoriented I have strong urges today moreover im having this weird craving using net when I see a phone with net in it I guess im struggling with internet addiction too
     
  18. GhostWriter

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    Interesting idea. I'm not so sure I think it is such a good idea to "...think of my clitoris as the enemy..." because I think you need to have a healthy respect and love for your clitoris. It's your body part. If you think of it as "...the enemy...", then how do you reconcile enjoying clitoral stimulation in a healthy sexual relationship. I don't know that you can discern the difference. I can't speak for women because I am not one, but I do believe that the clitoris is the most sensitive component of your vagina in much the same way the head of the penis is in a man. I'd think you'd want to keep that. As another reinforcement of that theory, consider women who have been subjected to genital mutilation. Just my thought on the matter.
     
  19. Captain A

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    Pick yourself up the battle is not over! Don't binge!
     
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  20. A girl

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    How about take a walk smell the fresh air and start over promising not to relapse again and study hard cause the more you study the less you forget about the porn
     
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