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Really need some advice

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by VanillaMacDre, Jan 29, 2018.

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  1. Jan 29, 2018 #1
    VanillaMacDre

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    Ok guys first of all I’m not a native English speaker so sorry for bad English.
    I’ve been struggling with PIED since I turned 18. Used to had great sex before that but one day I failed and I failed since then.
    I’m on my best clean streak of PMO with 41 days and now I feel sick when I think in porn, I’m feeling so happy with my new life and I don’t want to come back to being depressed and all that stuff.
    But here’s the problem. I fell in love with a girl and everything was amazing till she wanted to have sex. I made my best to make everything right but I failed to had an erection I was really nervous. I love her so much that I told her the truth, the porn addiction and everything, she laughed and told me that it was OK! That I got nothing to worry about and that I was not a bad person for what I did. After that we cuddle and we have some regular sex without a condom.
    I really want to make everything perfect for her! What can I do? Please everything will help
     
    VanillaMacDre, Jan 29, 2018
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  2. Jan 29, 2018 #2
    GG2002

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    It can take longer than 90 to even see results. Tell her about the
    PIED. She is fine the first and maybe the second or third but by the fourth she’s thinking she is the cause of your ED, she’s not pretty etc and her self esteem will tank. At least if you tell the truth she can see the reason, and if you tell her and she runs better to kmow now. Also don’t MO at all, cut out both p and mo.
     
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  3. Jan 29, 2018 #3
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    Well done - that is about six weeks. :) However, it is too soon to expect a reboot. It usually takes a few months. So try to be patient. You did the right thing telling your girlfriend (although she was cruel to laugh at you). She said it is OK. :)
     
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  4. Jan 29, 2018 #4
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    Did you even read his post? He did tell her...
     
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  5. Jan 30, 2018 #5
    VanillaMacDre

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    Hahaha yeah she is really nice and said she will support me, but honestly I also want to satisfy her. Guess I’ll keep clean and waiting. Hope everything will go in the right direction. Also I will practice some sports and having healthy habits.
     
    VanillaMacDre, Jan 30, 2018
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  6. Jan 30, 2018 #6
    GG2002

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    I did not read anywhere in his post that he said his porn addiction was the cause of his ED. The post is vague on what was told and I don’t like to assume. My focus was on her not thinking she was the cause of the ED.
     
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