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Rationalizations & Countering them...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nate311, Sep 12, 2018.

  1. nate311

    nate311 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all, I wanted to create a list of my bullshit rationalizations and excuses for relapsing and acting out with porn. I think it's important to counter these and fight back. Feel free to respond with your own ideas.

    Rationalizations:

    • "I'm stressed, tired, can't sleep, etc—I will peek just for a little while." (victimhood)
    • "I'm on a huge streak, I've been doing so well, this will just be a little reward." (entitlement)
    • "I deserve a peek." (entitlement)
    • "My wife/gf hasn't been forthcoming in bed." (entitlement)
    • "I'll get on another streak after this anyways." (jumping to conclusions)
    • "I'm bored with my sex life. I want to see something new. It won't hurt." (entitlement and jumping to conclusions)
    • "This will help me last longer in bed" (jumping to conclusions)
    • "This will jumpstart my sex drive" (jumping to conclusions)
    Counters:
    • Porn ruins my mental health.
    • Porn ruins my relationships—with myself and others.
    • Porn distracts me from my purpose.
    • Porn distracts me from my meaning.
    • Porn makes me feel unlovable and unworthy.
    • Porn destroys my ability to help and love others.
    • Porn keeps me from reaching my full potential.
    • Porn causes anxiety and depression, and only alleviates boredom and monotony. It’s a lopsided equation.
    • Porn is just instant gratification and will hurt me long term.
     
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  2. Nice lists, thank you for sharing it! I am sure that could be really useful for others :)
     

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