I don't agree with what you said. For whatever reason, for the first time in my life I feel like I have control over sexual emotions. Its no longer about the thoughts, fantasizes, or cravings that you feed in to. YOU are taking control of what you want for your mind and body in life. I just feel happier now as if the stuff I did before was a crutch used whenever I felt horny or down. Yes everyone gets tempted or random thoughts of sex comes up but its about what you do with those thoughts whether you will relapse or keep moving forward. I don't know its just my opinion but I really feel giving up this addiction does help.