Question

So I am currently on day 8 of my reboot and lately I have been thinking a lot about sex with my girlfriend. Currently I am away from her and will be back with her in 41 days. Is it bad that I'm thinking about sex with her for my recovery?

Also before I started rebooting she mentioned stopping sex until marriage (we have done it a lot before, but that means going from doing it like every other day to not at all for 3-4 years) because she said she wants to get serious. No decision has been made there but the situation just feels so weird, and if I get back after thinking about sex with her and not having that happen I don't want to get mad at her, but it's currently a lot of what I think about.

Any advice would be appreciated