Hello to all of you. Yesterday my husband admitted that he masturbates to music videos on youtube. I was quite shocked. Also what shocked me is how differently we feel about it. For him that is not porn, and he thinks masturbation for him is normal, and he pointed out that sex is not so frequent and he needs release. My husband is much younger than me, so maybe it is a cultural difference. For me these young starlets twisting their bodies in skimpy attires is not music, it is porn. Even if it is not on porn site. And it seems we feel very differently about masturbation too. He always knew how I feel about porn. From the beginning he agreed to installing a software that blocks it. He said he doesn't watch porn, but that he understands my uncertainties and doesn't mind having such software installed. But it is so strange that he always thought that "music" videos and masturbation are OK. I am not sure what to do. Am I crazy to think this is not OK? How can I discuss this with him?