Question for partners of PAs

Wow thanks for that info! I was wondering why I still cared about p-subs even though I totally gave up M.

 

Edging for me isn't edging around M. It's edging around P. Telling myself I didn't really break my no P streak because what I saw was just some movie or swimsuit ad, etc. But I know why I was looking at it.

 

Yup that's why I'm here.

 

Read this, @slb. Interesting to realize you were often *bathing* all day long.

 

You can make it PMOEF, because fantasy has it's own place in this addiction. We can also add "L" for lying, "D" for getting defensive, "G" for gaslighting, "S" for staring, "R" for rejection, "A" for avoidance, so we create a counter for PMOEFLDGSRA... any more? ;-)

 

I might need to add an F
The others I feel I have recovered from, I never did RA.

 

Honestly I promised myself A few years back that I would NEVER turn down my wife for sex. It's the one promise I've always kept. I just don't understand these guys turning it down. I guess that just isn't my weakness.

 

Yea I have to make sure to look at the food magazines in the market to keep my eyes and mind away from the half naked celebs

 

I guess maybe my addiction wasn't quite that bad. You could see my journal to see for yourself. But she is satisfied with a couple times a week most. She only does more than that if I want it.

 

Umm I don't understand them either!!! Wah wah I'm tired, I don't feel good, we just had sex yesterday..lol

 

Right!? well idk he claims to have not PMO everyday...