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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Kirst, Jan 16, 2019.

  1. Jan 16, 2019 #1
    Kirst

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    Hello..

    Today is my third day after my last relapsed. Im struggling enough to reach the end of this day. A day feels longer than it usually be. Struggling to keep myself away from PMO for these three days. It feels so hard and sometimes i feel like i want to just give up and make myself feel good just for a while.. Seriously i am very proud of myself. The longest streak that i have ever done is 3 days and thats why i write it today.. I want to make this as my motivation when i feel any kinds of urge.

    One of the reason why i want to stop doing all this thing is that i want to achieve my ambition. I want to be a chef and i know that i can be a really good chef when i had changed my life.. I have been wasting lot of my time before this just by doing PMO. If i quit PMO, i will have lot more free time which i can fill it with joining a class or whatever activities that can improve my skills. All the benefits that i can get by quiting PMO will help me to achieve my ambition.. And there are a lot of benefits that i will have in my life..

    The biggest reason why i want to quit PMO is that i want to lose weight.. I want to focus more on my exercises and all the routine that i want to do to lose weight.. It had been a long time since the last time im going to the gym and do workouts, so since now i am free i know that i should pay more attention to it.. My 2019 resolution is to lose at least 20 pounds... Only by quiting PMO i can focus on my resolution and give more effort to it since i will have much more time.. I have to work harder everyday and every seconds to make sure that i will achieve it and i cannot just easily give up when im in trouble..

    I am STRONG ! I can HANDLE this ! I want to CHANGE MY LIFE and be a BETTER PERSON !

    Sorry for the long thread and hope that you can share some tips so that i can do this successly.. Thank you for reading..
     
    Kirst, Jan 16, 2019
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  2. Jan 16, 2019 #2
    Committed to One

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    Hey great job make ng the decision to post and get another day free of PMO. Longer streaks are made up of single days where you decide to do whatever you need to do to be free of this stuff.
    You are strong! You can do this and you have good goals. Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that. Then go get to work on them. Do sit around and wait for the temptation to show up cause it will. Don't waste you energy trying to fight it because we all know how that story ends. Get moving on what you want to achieve. You can pray or meditate while your taking a walk outside.
    A cold shower, or at least a cold finish on the midsection can really help if your feeling strong urges.
    Do what it takes and be the best you you can be!
     
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  3. Jan 16, 2019 #3
    Kirst

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    Thanks for your support.. It is such a great idea and i really hope that i can achieve my goals and also my dreams.. I will try your tips after this.. Wish me all the best in my life..
     
    Kirst, Jan 16, 2019
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  4. Jan 20, 2019 #4
    The Wrestler

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    Your counter's reading 7 days, which is great! Even three is a big accomplishment - it shows you are moving in a good direction.
    It's not easy, but it is good. So, yeah...you'll have to cut some things out, give up websites you used to visit (I had to give up the Chive, which was sad).

    For weight: it's a thousand little choices every day. Some to eat something better, some to not eat others. Try substituting things and fading them out. I switched pop for juice for water, ice cream for frozen yogurt for nothing, and chips for rice chips.
     
    The Wrestler, Jan 20, 2019
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  5. Jan 21, 2019 #5
    Kirst

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    Thank you so much.. i admit that it is really tough for me to reach untill day 7 but i know i have to force myself to get something which is good for myself.. for weight lose it is hard.. i love so much to eat.. your idea about substituting things are pretty good for me.. i will try it.. btw, thanks for your tips..

    Thank you for your support.. really appreciate it..
    Wish you and everyone all the best..
     
    Kirst, Jan 21, 2019
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