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Premature Ejaculation

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by RevFlav100, Nov 3, 2018.

  1. I think some people use edging to “take the edge off” withdrawal symptoms. Edging is masturbation and there’s no disputing that fact. So it’s M without O. There is no way that would ever work for me because M always leads to O for me. Even if it did work for me M releases dopamine and for me, I can’t get over my addiction to dopamine if I’m engaging in self-serving activities that release dopamine. The “something for nothing” mentality is what I have to get rid of. However, I believe that sex with a SO is different because dopamine is released but it is done in a healthy way and is done out of love, not lust.

    My goal is no PMO. That being said I respect everyone’s goals here and I think most people would eventually like to be freed from being addicted to M as well. One thing at a time, one day at a time. :)
     
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  2. Uruvug

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    Yes edging is kind of dangerous if you are trying to stay away from porn. For some people it leads to relapsing. I can control it for the most part, and can do it just as an exercise, although sometimes I end up ejaculating by accident because I went too far, maybe 1 time out of 10 that happens to me. I guess everybody is different and you gotta know what works and what doesn't.
     
  3. Good point.
     
  4. Uruvug

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    I've never have had a wet dream in my life, not that I have noticed anyway. The blue balls would happen very rarely before, although I can't remember when was the last time that I had one of those... I guess everyone is different.
     
  5. icantbelieveit

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    I don't think anyone here is obsessed with edging, or if they do they are going about it wrong. This thread is about PE, and specifically PE. In the context of PE and only in the context of PE edging does indeed help to train yourself to last longer. It literally cured it for me the last time I tried it. With that said do I recommend it? No, because it eventually lead me to escalate back to PMO. But if you have enough self control and time under your belt it is a method to look into curing PE.

    In the context of just rebooting/PMO I absolutely 100000% never ever even mention edging. Hell I may even consider that a relapse.
     
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  6. icantbelieveit

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    I cured my ED..before...I recommend reading my story here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/my-previous-success-story-pied-totally-cured.205856/

    I also cured my PE...before.

    ED I cured by no PMO for 1 month, at that point it was about 70% cured and about 99% cured by month 4.
    My PE was cured by as I mentioned before...edging with no fantasy...it took about a week. But that eventually lead my to keep chasing the O..which lead my back into PMO (although never as bad as before).

    Now I am back rebooting and no PMO, and I am preparing for my coming PE, since it happened before I am sure it will happen again. So as I mentioned I am doing reverse kegels and reading about breathing etc.
     
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  7. oaty

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    I read countless stories of no PMO curing ED. However PE is more complicated and may need more work to cure it alongside with no PM/PMO. I don't believe in edging to cure PE as I'm sure that its edging/masturbation which causes PE in the first place. Not to mention that edging can cause O and may lead to PMO.

    Instead other techniques such as breathing, reverse kegels, keeping pelvic muscles relaxed, kegels the correct way etc may be needed to cure PE. Having said that, I may consider strict edging techniques to combat PE in the future if all else fails.

    Hopefully what you said is correct. Maybe just a long PMO will eventually cure PE. Could be that PE is one of those things that will take long to heal. Where it seems that ED is usually cured between a few weeks to a few months.
     
  8. icantbelieveit

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    It may indeed be correct. This time im on no porn for life and no PMO for several months at least. I only plan on having O With a woman...and hopefully not prematurely. We’ll see how it goes this time. Until then I’m trying to figure out how to do reverse kegels effectively, it’s a bit difficult for me to be honest. Although this video has helped:
     
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