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Premature Ejaclation (+ PIED for free)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by K-Dot, Jan 8, 2019.

  1. K-Dot

    K-Dot Fapstronaut

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    I'm 200 days into no PMO and was 195 days into the no MO and my sensitivity went from "not feeling being shot in the dick" to "She exhaled air inot my dick and I came". I cum after 10-15 secoonds from BJ, but still have PIED when going for vaginal sex though... Kurčina brate, jebo mu pas mater (just cussing in my native language to relieve stress).

    I just need you, more expirienced, healed rebooters, or anyone who knows to hit me with some solutions for PE after long streak of not jerking off. Has Gabe ever mentioned anything about PE? Thank you!
     
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  2. Uruvug

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    200 is a pretty long streak, impressive. Of course it must be discouraging to get there and find that you're still having ED. However, the fact that your penis is now super sensitive means that there was some progress. Can you give some details about age, weight, and maybe something else that could be an important factor? I myself am no expert or anything, I did experience the same thing as you after a long streak. I would ejaculate very quickly and not be able to control it.
     
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  3. K-Dot

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    Hey bro,
    I'm 23 years old guy
    Height: 177-178 cm
    Weight: 67- 68 kg

    I've tried sex for the first time with my new GF 8 days ago and I also struggled from performance anxiety because I knew I'll either have PIED or PE (had both), so I had to tell her the truth of what is going on with me. However, I think my problems are in minor parts due to PA, I know the main reason for this is years of fapping to pixels on a screen.

    I also had a few slips in these 200 days (peeked to instagram 3 times and felt huge dopamine rush)
     
  4. K-Dot

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    I also forgot that I was drunk a little bit that night
     
  5. RollerCoaster

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    So did you came without having an erection or did you get one and then came fast?
     
  6. K-Dot

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    I got erection when she gave me a BJ and came fast. That happened 2 times that night. But 0 points for vaginal sex
     
  7. Uruvug

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    Maybe give it a few more tries since you just started now, and see if the problem continues. Many other factors could have played a role. Maybe since she is a new girlfriend you were a bit nervous, or maybe the alcohol had something to do with it. Or maybe you tried vaginal sex right after you had ejaculated from the BJ... one reference only is too few. just give it a few more tries and then report back to see how you reacted.
     
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  8. K-Dot

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    I'm thinking about trying Karezza when I finally get and stay hard enough for the penetration. I hope it'll rewire me for normal sex and also train me to last longer. I'll also try thinner condoms, I used durex extra safe, accidently bought them over durex classic, they are both blue in color and they are really thick, they even squezzed my dick
     
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  9. ReclaimedLife

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    A tip: Try to get 100% comfortable with the girl first. Make her come with your mouth, hands, tongue and focus on kissing a lot at the start. Rushing into sex can be nice if you know that your dicks works normally, but for me, i was kinda in the middle and i was glad that i waited until i was ready myself. it took around to weeks and when it happened it was supposed to be like that and it was beautiful.

    Try not to make it a competition, see it more as a union with someone you have a connection with, even if you are just dating casually.
    After your brain notices that she isnt going to leave you if you cant get it up all the time, you will start to relax, your mind will come at ease, and at some point, it will work in a way that is right for you.
    I could go into details but i think i might break the rules.

    I can send you a personal message if you are ok and want to know what worked for me
     
  10. K-Dot

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    This post is straight to the point. Of course I want to know what worked for you and more about your story, I'm waiting for PM. Thanks man
     

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