Premature eiaculation and wet dreams

You asked already in another section but this one may be better fitting. I'll reply here as well.

I am going to get flak for this as usual but wet dreams are not normal, a healthy adult male should not get them. Yes, it's common in the nofap community because there are a lot of pmo addicts here but ultimately wet dreams are a sign that the problem is still there.

I used to get a lot of wet dreams until I accepted that I shouldn't have them. Wet dreams can be controlled. I had many instances in which i woke up when I was having an erotic dream and involuntarily stopped myself from ejaculating.

I used to get a wet dream even 7 days in an abstinence period, now I haven't had one for 60 days monk mode.

Kegels will probably make PE worse, Reverse kegels may help with PE.

You should not masturbate at all.

Premature ejaculation is highly correlated to wet dreams by the way.

 

Ignore the site (healthystrokes) because it's a stupid site that advocates for masturbation, but the data is relevant regardless

The odds ratio for PE and wet dreams is 1.83 and the sample size it huge (700+ males)


There is also a strong correlation between PE and bed wetting https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4074711/

 

Contrary to popular belief, wet dreams are very uncommon

This research called Sex dreams, wet dreams, and nocturnal emissions. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2011-20609-001

shows that regular sex/wet dreams are very uncommon,, with 47% of men never having them or having them once or twice in a lifetime https://i.imgur.com/JunBDzN.jpg

 

You won't, you'll just mask the symptom better by desensitization.

 

I have never had wed dreams in my whole life, yet i have MASSIVE PE.

 

I think I know what Kegels are, but what are reverse Kegels?

 

You push like you want to get more pee out instead of squeezing to keep pee in. Google it for more info.

 

Perhaps I can provide you with a different take on the nature of wet dreams to help?

Wet dreams are not caused by weak resistance to orgasms, but rather weak willpower and a short-circuit in the flow of energy in the body.. it's important to view your whole body, mind included, as an integrated being. Everything pushes and pulls on something else.
Involuntary ejaculation happens for a few reasons and they all tie into eachother. It's difficult for people to understand who aren't open minded because many aspects of this deal with self temperance and self understanding and spirituality. Whether they wish to acknowledge those aspects doesn't matter, they are factors regardless.

The mind reacts to stimulus it perceives from the body and thought forms. One or the other or both are why your energy isn't cycling and repowering you but spilling out in sleep.
You either have blockages in your energy channels or influences in your auric fields & mind. The uninhibited "ME" shows it's true self in sleep and if you are having wet dreams every 4 days your energy is being stopped up and spilled out by the body for various reasons under various influences.
Again, these things are infinitely complex and always deeply personal.

My suggestion would be to look into the power of meditation and to be careful what you consume physically and mentally after 6pm.

* so TLDR. Wet-dreams are the symptom not the cause. Same with PE, the cause is psychophysiological and spiritual to degrees that are truly beyond many individuals willing comprehension. They just simply shut down and live blind to the truth.

+ on a positive note the fact you are having wet dreams means you are beginning to stop the self destructive habit of masturbation and are moving in a positive direction to take your power back. (That's why most never have wet dreams. they just willingly Jack off all their power every day and have nothing left.)

 

Right on! I'm in the same boat mine have gotten MUCH less frequent and even gotten to a point that i can often become lucid and stop them before it happens!
Many many times I've found that these influences, these images of seductive women in my dreams are almost like.. intruders into my dream space trying take this sexual energy. And the more I practice meditation and self control the less these invasive thought forms in my sleep can effect me.
I suspect there is an entire subtle existence we dip into in our sleep.

 

i think there is a correlation. eespecially for virgins who have never had sex and could literally cum as soon as the girl removes her bra.

 

I masturabted at age 14......at age 16...i decided to stopdue to serious effects...but wetdreams started coming from age 16.....reason physically i stopped...mentally not..i use to think about sex all time.....afrom age 16 to age 26...10 years i suffered wetdreams..and became living dead...from age 26-28...i came to know whats wrong...i stopped thinking about sex, women etc....and stopped fantasizing..and being busy about other things......wet dreams stopped...now i rarely get, but when i'm emotionally disturbed, think about sex...women etc...i get....its all in mind and attitude bro.....life will teach what it has to teach you.....