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Pornstar died age 35

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Troels. L, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. Troels. L

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    Another reason to quit porn, are the shady things happening behind the scenes. The women are not sex monsters who crave sex more than anything. I suppose that she may have had a troubled childhood. I could be wrong too, maybe she did it out of desperation, no money. But i want to have some ethic and steer clear from it
     
  2. Tryingto

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    I agree with this completely. The recovery group I belong to was once visited by a 'recruiter' in the sex industry (porn, escorts, and so on). He spent a couple hours telling us how he used to do his job and what the results were for the women and men he 'recruited'. It was an eye opener that still offers part of my motivation for stopping this addiction.
     
  3. One of the biggest problems with the porn industry is that they exploit vulnerable people. Women or men who may have been molested, raped, brought up in abusive households, etc. They take these people who are broken make them perform on camera and once their services are no longer required they throw them out like they are trash. When you have been neglected your whole life and the same thing happens to you again in this industry it is hard to trust anyone. Not to mention, these porn videos last forever and sometimes the guilt and shame is too much to handle. This is one of the many reasons why I won't go back to watching porn again.
     
  4. Who died? I would like to read interviews etc of people that actually stopped doing porn, and regret it. I wanna learn from them why. Why the reject this buisness, why they did it in the first place, etc. I think i came once across an interview with a former pornstar that is now some sort of anti-porn activist, but cant remember her name anymore. I would find a thread that collects such interviews (or documentations?) quite usefull!!!
     
  5. I think it might a be a trigger if the name was released however google it!
     
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  6. Shyla Stylez
    Without an audience, she wouldn't have had this career. Without this career, she would have done something else with her life. Had she done something else, we wouldn't have heard of her, but she might not have died so young.
     
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  7. that's deep as hell
     
  8. hej då

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    She!?!?!? :eek:
    She was so gorgeous, even though I haven't seen her in a while.

    But now it's time for some reality to kick in!
    Women like that don't get abused nor they struggle with poverty.
    She did the porn because she wanted to, it's not like she was forced to.
    Because she could've work any other type of job just as easily.

    Don't you guys think that women like her have all the doors open for them, honestly?

    I'm not judging her by any means, but that's just the reality.
    Sad that she died.
     
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  9. I think a lot of boys and men are taken in by the unreal fantasies portrayed in porn and because many of the porn stars have to put on a front when talking to others such as their fans etc people get the impression the performers really enjoy their job, maybe a very small section do for a while, but the end result is often not very pretty. i think a lot of abuse goes on in the porn industry and it's a good cover for someone who is a predator because let's face it, if a female porn star goes to the police and says she was forced into something against her will, who would take her seriously? like a soldier complaining that he got shot in a war zone almost. For me, understanding the human cost has helped me to gain a sense of empathy and compassion which i lacked previously, possibly because I wanted to believe the lies that the industry blurts out in order to keep myself in a state of ignorance.
     
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  10. did you know her personally you say it with such conviction?
     
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    Do I have to know her personally to put two and two together?
     
  12. to say "Women like that don't get abused nor they struggle with poverty".. if a chick is hot she can't get abused or she can't be poor? what does her looks have to do with that?
     
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    How often do you see a woman that beautiful on the street?
    Now, how many of those women you see being treated badly?
    How many of those women have you seen riding a public transport?

    what does her looks have to do with that?

    Everything!
    You are either blind or simply dishonest if at the age of 28 you fail to see the correlation.
     
  14. That makes no sense at all, sure I see beautiful women all the time that doesn't mean I know them personally or I know what happens behind closed doors. I'm 28 years old but I'm not a psychic, I don't know what everyone has experienced or gone through you can't make a generalized statement like "women like that don't get treated badly" because quite frankly you don't know if they do or if they don't.
     
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    Well, then I can't help you with understanding the dynamic behind it all.
    Have a nice day.
     
  16. Troels. L

    Troels. L Fapstronaut

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    ? that's borderline retarded.....
     
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  17. Troels. L

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    It does not make sense, you are probably a troll or not too smart. The women you see in porn are like photoshop, they did not walk in the scene looking like that, they have had a stylist.
     
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  18. I dated models, and some of them clearly have incredible issues.... i can assure you that some of the hottest girls i knew are some of the strangest characters at the same time. Shall say: i wouldnt wonder if some of them as well have been abused, or let them self get used etc pp. Nevertheless its true that beauty can be something that protects as woman. But only as much as it attracts all sorts of creeps willing to exploit her. It simply depends on her strength where she ends... I know very very pretty girls that definitly ended in the gutter, have been raped etc pp.
     
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  19. Its not that dificult to see such women in public transport - i meanwhile googled her. It just depends where you live.....
     
  20. hej då

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    The previous guy was much more polite and I wasn't willing to spend my time discussing it further with him, what makes you think that I'm going to spend my evening taking insults from you?
     

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