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Porn vs. PMO

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by david ramone, Sep 20, 2017.

  1. david ramone

    david ramone New Fapstronaut

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    So over the last couple days I've glanced at some P very quickly. Never in long sessions and never with MO. I feel like P is not my problem but that I'm masturbating too frequently to P. Is a quick glance here and there really a problem if I'm not wasting away my day having a PMO marathon?
     
  2. Marcus Aurelius

    Marcus Aurelius Fapstronaut

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    Why do you need to look at porn though?

    My mind does this a lot - it tries to find ways to justify looking at porn or any kind of sexually stimulating material. It is playing with fire though and it almost led me to relapse. Just the fact that you need to look at porn "very quickly" and then get out, I think, shows that you already know that this is dangerous. I think this is your addiction in desperation, doing anything it can to lead you back into your old habits. You said that you can look at porn without having to masturbate. Yes, I've done that too. The thing is all it takes is stumbling across the wrong image to give you an unbelievably powerful urge and, believe me, that is not fun.

    Prove you aren't addicted to porn by not looking at it.
     
  3. david ramone

    david ramone New Fapstronaut

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    The thing is, I enjoy it. I workout 5-6 days a week. I wouldn't call it a problem, just something I enjoy. Looking at porn briefly gets me aroused and then I'm more eager to find a girl to have sex with. I feel like if I'm constantly trying to avoid sexual stimulation and move my focus elsewhere, I'll be less aggressive in my search for female companionship.
     
  4. kingpietro

    kingpietro Fapstronaut

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    I first thought the same thing porn gives you more motivation to searching seks however that results in you getting less sex. BECAUSE YOU ARE SEARCHING FOR IT. Woman have a smell for desperation and attention seaking.

    If you don't watch porn and don't masturbate you get a massive amount of confidence in the sence of not needing sex and attention from woman.

    If you don't watch porn and don't masturbate you get a motivation to speak to specific woman who you thinx are a good mate (not all of them) so even hot babes might look bad at you only some woman will look awesome to you.

    You're body olso gives special hormons that increases in the change of getting a mate. It usally atracts woman who thinx you are a good mate because they smell you're hormons.

    Bassicly NoFap makes it easier to speak to the right girl who allready is atracted to you by you're hormons.

    You are going to be motivated to seduce her and she is going to smell you're testosteron and certain hormons its bassicly how it was supposed to work in the nature

    Thinx about the conversation you have with girls when you are on porn the only thought you have is how can i get her in to my pants.. While if you are on NoFap you are like " i am going to talk to her and see how it goes".
     
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  5. You're still relying on artificial stimulus though. If you continue down this road, you're going to reach a point where that's the ONLY stimulus that works, and you'll be bored or indifferent to real girls.
     
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  6. Hello Mr. Ramone. You say you enjoy porn, and neurologically, you do. Have you ever asked yourself why? It is the same reason for all of us. Porn makes us have a sexual thought. We enjoy sexual thoughts. Why? We "enjoy" them because they produce a dopamine rush. Dopamine is the neurotransmitter that exists to encourage sex, because having sex, a lot of it, is key to the species being successful.
     
  7. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

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    You need to stop relying on porn to be stimulated rely on things like talking to a girl etc you dont need porn your body will naturally be stimulated.
     
  8. I call bullshit. The thing about a powerful porn image as opposed to a beautiful piece of art is the "adrenaline rush" high dopamine flood your brain feels. A cute girl in real life can't getcha high like porno.
     
  9. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

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    But if you dont have the powerful porn image eventually you will get the rush from the girl. That's the point. Unless you want to remain single forever, do you plan on needing to look at porn to enjoy sex with a girl? No girl will put up with that.
     
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