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Porn, masturbating and sex

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Darthb, Jun 18, 2018.

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  1. Jun 18, 2018 #1
    Darthb

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    So I have been on the tug since I was like 15 and I never had a relationship. Now I’m near 20 and I’ve been in a 4 month relationship and when it came to the good stuff I just couldn’t perform. I couldn’t feel anything when she gave me the Zucc and I never finished. Now we moved onto final base and I still couldn’t feel anything down there, felt numb in a way. I’m also looking at other girls in a sexual way and not my girlfriend which kind of scares me. Do you guys have the same thing? If so have you found out what the problem is? I think it might be porn which is why I’m stopping it. I’m on 7 days right now, any input would be much appreciated
     
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  2. Jun 18, 2018 #2
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    You answered your question.
     
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  3. Jun 19, 2018 #3
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    I guess a reboot is a good thing. For two reasons.
    Reason 1: For aprox 88% of the guys who watch porn doing a reboot (no porn, masturbation and orgasm) is the key to get aroused again. Your brain is flooded with images of a lot of hot women and porn. The brain is not able to see a difference between real woman and computer screen woman. So, the reason you cant get aroused with your girlfriend is because sex it's kinda boring in comparison to internet porn. Your brain needs to adapt to fewer stimuli so it can get aroused to a real woman again.
    If you are doing a lot of things to make your reboot a success it can be a quick one. But i heard from people that they needed 200 days. I, a hardcore porn, drugs, alcohol addict did a reboot of 123 days. I included a lot to make it go faster so i did meditation, cold showering, exercising a lot, no alcohol, no caffeine, no sugar. after 105 days i was out of flatline.. And now i get aroused by normal stimuli
    Reason 2: if a reboot dont work, than you know it's physical and you should consult a doctor.

    Even if you don't believe it's the porn, you can try doing a reboot and watch if its helping.
     
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  4. Jun 19, 2018 #4
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    Thank you man, I’m gonna make sure she’s the only stimuli I have to try and train myself to get aroused by real life than online. And it’s hard going but I still haven’t relapsed so I’m gonna keep on going. Fingers crossed I’m fixed soon aha
     
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    Mitness

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    Just remember.. No screen pixel has ever loved you;)
     
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    Are you speaking in code? o_O
     
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    You may be over analyzing this, but sexualizing and fantasizing about other girls/women In real life is natural and it’s all in your brain and thoughts. This goes back to humanizing girls/women and not seeing them as sex objects. If you’re thinking of acting on your thoughts in negative ways and that’s whats scaring then you need help with that completely.

    I completely agree. Porn is fake, staged, simulated and detrimental to the human condition. Porn ruined me in the past to where sex with girls/women I would try to have sex like a porn star and act what I had seen even and not let anything happen naturally.

    It’s also so much easier to look at porn and masturbate then it is to pursue and have the physical act of sex when that should not be the case at all. Sex should be the best feeling in the entire world.

    I thought the same thing too lol
     
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  8. Jun 20, 2018 #8
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    AKA a blowjob haha
     
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  9. Jun 20, 2018 #9
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    Thank you for this reply, that makes me feel better knowing that it’s normal to see other girls in that way in a relationship, I haven’t acted on it yet which might be a good sign aha. Thank you, this community is really nice
     
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  10. Jun 20, 2018 #10
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    Haha! :p

    So if something is not good, :oops: can we say: "It Zuccs"? :rolleyes:
     
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  11. Jun 20, 2018 #11
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    Well you can if you want, but the joke is about Mark Zuckerberg and how someone asked him to give them the “Zucc” like “Succ” and he didn’t know what it meant so he said he would try his best
     
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