porn induced fetishes

Everyone has their own timeline of when things happen. Some go through the whole process quickly, other, like myself, seem to take forever.

All Things Must Pass

I had a couple bad fetishes and they've all but gone away. Just give it time, stay strong and you'll eventually see all the benefits.

Best of luck to you.

 

Porn will screw up your brain man. It'll make you think things that aren't true, and you'll find yourself attracted to shit that used to repulse you.

Quit porn. Quit all PMO for a while and reboot completely back to a pre-porn state.

Best of luck to you.

 

I also have the same problem. I'm straight but since i started watching porn basic stuff got boring and i went after hardcore stuff then i started watching transgender porn out of curiosity even though i feel giulty after masturbanting to that. Luckly those fetishes are not that strong in my mind. I was starting to be afraid that i wouldn't get aroused by actual sex so that's one of the main reasons why i want to quit.

 

Just letting you know you're not alone. Same story as @Eric Henrique I don't even know how I clicked on the link three years ago but I was deep into the transwomen and ladyboys from Thailand..

 

I am recovering from that as well. I had never even heard of it before l started looking at porn. I realize now it was just fantasy and escapism.

 

Yeah pretty much. I was taking a shower today and i realized most of my feshishes are porn induced. Come to think of it before porn i used to fantasise about kissing and being in love and saying beatiful things to each other, u know making love. After porn all i could think about is rough sex. That habit turns us into people we naturaly aren't that's why more and more people should take the issue very seiously.

 

Fetishes that develop before porn exposure are difficult to get rid of but I’ve found that acting them out in real life reduced my desire for them.

 

I had the same problem, Eric. Before porn I had normal healthy thoughts about women... Having sex with my GF turned into violent rough sex even causing her pain. She also watched porn so we both got into mutual abuse(BDSM or whatever you call it). I am quitting porn and never looking back... It really distorts the mind and causes so many problems. It's really sick and toxic....

 

I am glad I didn´t fall for the BDSM category. For me it is most important, that the girl feels right and after that my own feelings. Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own.

This is not you who want to hurt your girls, it´s the brainwashing of porn, try to erase it from your mind.

From my little experience, some girls would not even tell the man when something hurts her (for example you fuck too hard and her moaning sounds like pain instead pleasure) - they don´t want to be seen as a whiner who denies her man pleasure.

So be gentle with their soft bodies.

 

scary indeed, I also got hooked to transgender porn and at one point wowed that I will one day seek the services of a transgender prostitute.

porn is a destroyer.

 

Before I was exposed to porn, I saw posters around the city advertising their shows. I assumed they were hermaphrodites!

 

It's a decision I regret everyday but at the time, I was so deep in the fetish that even the feeling of humiliation after the faps started to go away and turned Into desires to act it out which I eventually did and wish I could take it back

 

Sometimes I feel aroused by naked women, but i just dont get a boner. However reading words describing my fetishes already get me hard, even without really feeling turned on.
Will I ever get hard by naked women again?

 

I think so, but it will take time. What’s your longest NoFap streak? I’d say you should go at least 45 days before starting to get concerned.

 

you have to take steps to purge the fantasy from your mind...
i am trying this technique which i picked up from @ILoathePorn 's journal:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/i-loathe-porns-journal.66420/page-22#post-1297698

 

My longest streak was about a year ago ~ 3 weeks. I'll try to reach 45....it sounds impossible though.
BTW no porn is easy for me....its the fetish fantasies i cant resist

 

Yes this is what I want...to purge the fantasies from my mind...what is the technique you are refering to? I just read your post about not fantasizing

 

here is a link to how @ILoathePorn described it:
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/i-loathe-porns-journal.66420/page-18#post-791569

There are other threads around this forum about fantasizing and it's negative effects- and more importantly how it can hinder recovery even when you stop looking at porn because you still have the 'porn studio of the mind'

Also check out your brain on porn:
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/sexual-fantasy-the-more-you-scratch-the-more-you-itch