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Porn and Small Penis Syndrome

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Silence0095, Jan 6, 2015.

  1. Silence0095

    Silence0095 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello, I'm 26 years old and I've been watching porn almost daily for 10 years. I've never considered myself an a addict per se, but I've never seriously tried to quit either. Over the past six months I've developed small penis syndrome, a more or less constant anxiety that my penis is of inadequate size. While I am a bit below average, I'm sure that the porn I've watched over the years has contributed to this feeling. Sex and the size of my penis plague my thoughts for hours each day, and I'm sick and tired of it. As of today I'm kicking porn and I hope to find relief. An encouraging word or two would be great. Has anyone else had similar experiences? This looks like a great site, hope to find some solidarity.
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Most male porn stars are not average. In fact, some of them have such big cocks, you kinda think they grew up next to a nuclear power station resulting in some kind of mutation sticking out above their balls, lol! :D Please don't get me wrong mate, I am not trivialising a genuine anxiety - which I share. The only thing that puzzles me is why your 'small penis syndrome' began so late (i.e. 26 years old). I was anxious about if my dick was 'big enough' when I was in my mid teens and it has stayed with me ever since.

    Do you think you have a 'micro penis' (clinical definition)? do you have an accurate idea of what an 'average' size cock really is? Is it your flaccid or erect dick that bothers you? Do you know how big a penis has to be to satisfy someone vaginally/analy? If you would rather discuss these details privately, feel free to send me a message. You have my empathy - IGY
     
  3. Manudesaa

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    Bonjour,
    Votre discussion m'intéresse... Moi aussi, j'ai été comme vous. A force de regarder du porno, j'ai cru que mon pénis était plus petit que la moyenne. Mais, c'est faux. A force de trop regarder du porno, mon cerveau pensait ça, mais c'est tout. Mon pénis est "normal", certainement comme le vôtre. Mais à force de regarder porno, le cerveau se pose la question : "Mon pénis est-il trop petit ?" Il ne faut pas vous comparer aux acteurs pornos masculins, car leur pénis est très grand par rapport à la moyenne. Les filles ne regardent jamais la taille quand vous couchez avec elle. Alors ne vous inquiétez pas pour cela. La taille n'a pas grande importance ! Il faut essayer de ne plus regarder Porno. Car Porno met des idées fausses dans votre tête. Porno n'est pas la vraie sexualité.
     
  4. IGY

    IGY Guest

    English, please!
     
  5. tomtom

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    I've been there and got better eventually after I stopped PMO. As your brain gets numb to the all the P you see you start to look for new types of P. For some people SPH seems to be the thing that gets them aroused, some people start to like gay P or some other stuff that they might not previously have even thought about...

    I guess I'm below average but that's what I've got. I can change it as much as I can change the weather and I no longer feel bad about it. I'm above average in other ways.

    I strongly believe that quitting P will make you feel better about yourself in so many ways. Just stay strong, you can do it!
     
  6. AZTEQUE

    AZTEQUE Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends,

    I've written the following proposal of translation for the french message above by Manudesaa.

    >Bonjour,
    Votre discussion m'intéresse... Moi aussi, j'ai été comme vous. A force de regarder du porno, j'ai cru que mon pénis était plus petit que la moyenne. Mais, c'est faux. A force de trop regarder du porno, mon cerveau pensait ça, mais c'est tout. Mon pénis est "normal", certainement comme le vôtre. Mais à force de regarder porno, le cerveau se pose la question : "Mon pénis est-il trop petit ?" Il ne faut pas vous comparer aux acteurs pornos masculins, car leur pénis est très grand par rapport à la moyenne. Les filles ne regardent jamais la taille quand vous couchez avec elle. Alors ne vous inquiétez pas pour cela. La taille n'a pas grande importance ! Il faut essayer de ne plus regarder Porno. Car Porno met des idées fausses dans votre tête. Porno n'est pas la vraie sexualité.

    >Hello,
    I'm interested by the dicsussion... Me too, I've been like you. By watching too much porn, I've been thinking my penis size was under average. But it's wrong. Watching too much porn, my brain came to that point, that's all. My penis was "normal", surely the same as you. But watching too much porn, the brain itself asks the question : "Is my penis too small?" You mustn't compare with male porn actors, because their penis size is usually above average. Women never watch the size when you're in bed. Therefore don't worry about that. Size does not really matters! You should avoid watching porn, because porn bring out wrong ideas in your brains. Porn is not real sex.
     
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  7. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Thanks AZTEQUE :)
     
  8. CL555

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    Thanks for the translation AZTEQUE. I must ask though, why is your counter goal set to 1095 days? What is the significance in this number? Just curious, C.
     
  9. AZTEQUE

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    Hello CL555,

    3*365=1095

    And whereas I don't believe in such rules, I've always hear that an addiction can be defeated in three years of abstinence. Thus I've choosen this number, but I look at it as a funny challenge. I could as well put no time challenge because I have no idea at this moment how much time I need to feel comfortable about watching porn and not being addicted -- could be quicker or even never... The thing is that I don't want to look at porn as an evil beast that should be banished. Of course it can be dangerous and you can be easily addicted and has your behavior somehow reshaped by this. But I still think that there exists easy ways to porn, without addiction but just having fun watching this, perhaps with partners even.

    As for now I feel I do need a lot of time to "reboot". And I'm feeling good to do this.

    What about number 555 ?

    Cheers,
    AZTEQUE
     
  10. CL555

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    Hi AZTEQUE, sorry that it's taken me so long to reply. I can't believe I didn't spot the 3*365 thing especially seeing that the date 29/12/17 is on your counter :p

    555 Has no significance, I just couldn't think of a decent username..

    Good to see that you're on 32 days, keep it up!!
     
  11. AZTEQUE

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    Dear CL555,

    Thank you for your reply. Late is okay, mine is also! I hope you're feeling good even after your seeming relapses. You'd better not focusing on these relapses, but on what you can do right now for improving. What do you wanna do ?

    I am everyday more amazed by the changes that I could appreciate in my life after I stopped watching porn and after I have minimized my masturbation frequency, and my ejaculation frequency in general (actually due to single man life). Everyone can feel this extraordinary sexual energy which wants to pop out of your genitals and run and spin through your body. And you just feel so powerful by 'only' giving up that modern drug which has poluted the web -- porn, unconscious sexual behaviors, or the will of orgasm as a release -- which tend to stultify people and let them happy as they are, with no will of power, excel and transcend.

    Best,
    Azteque
     

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