Porn aka "Cuckold training 101". How porn literally trains you to become a cuckold

thanks for the link, was an interesting read. No, I don't think that you or this guy from the story are only interested in being cucks because you watched porn as if porn had some magical brainwashing power. You are drawn to cuckolding porn because you like it on some level. If you watch it all the time, your mind gets occupied with it and then you may have a hard time forgetting about this idea. You may not get a hard on with your partner because you spend all this time with your fantasies and they make you hard. But in the end of the day, it was you who started the fetish, you who indulged in the fantasies. They are a part of you, there is nothing wrong with that, live them if you can.

The guy in the story did the right thing, I think. He made his girl happy. That is all that matters.
He feels guilty for some strange reason. He should be proud of himself.

After my now 60 or so days off porn I would, however strongly recommend to this guy to stop watching porn and jerking off to it. He is wasting sexual energy he could spend on the satisfaction of his girlfriend.

 

I am on nofap because I realised that I wasted a lot of sexual energy on porn and could not control my porn / masturbation habits. The result is that I could often not satisfy my wife. I tried to stop it several times but never with true conviction. I did not implement clear plans and allowed every excuse to go back to the habit.

So about sixty days back, I had disappointed my partner again and was so disgusted with myself that I vowed to stop. I did some research on Gary Wilson, etc, and stumbled on this forum. Since then, I stick to my plans regarding masturbation and have not watched porn. the forum seems to help me with that, so I stay.

I have no moral objections towards masturbation, porn and kinks. I am only interested in the happiness of my wife. If I cannot watch porn and perform in bed, I have to stop porn. My performance has improved, so no porn for me.

 

@BartlebytheScrivener you mentions your wife sleeps with other men but doesn’t let you watch. Does she let you sleep with other women? People have their options regarding your “ways” ... I could care less to tell you how to live especially if you both are happy.

 

yes I she would theoretically consent to me having sex with other people as well, but I don' even attempt to practice that atm. I don't think it would be a good idea, our lives would get too complicated.

 

I think you are the troll here.

 

Don’t be so judgemental. Especially on this site. Cucking can be an important lesson in learning not to see your partner as a possession/territory, and if all parties consent what is the problem. If it is linked to pornography addiction or becomes the only sex in your relationship then there is probably a problem

 

I am not even reading this. Just by reading your title i know you are right.
Porn is fucking poison for a mans mind.

 

Man. I like you.

I totally agree. If i am in a relationhship, that girl is more or less "mine". She can do whatever she wants but if i see her kissing or fucking with another guy, its "bye bye!" And it sounds awkward, but in my opinion, to unleash your full sexual desire as a man, you have to see her a bit like an object. If you put her on a pedastel, and always play nice, you may never "just take her" the way A LOT OF women actually enjoy it.

 

And then let the donkey fuck other dudes