Porn addiction in my relationship.

Glad to hear that you are looking to get help and make changes! I hope this site will serve as a resource in your recovery process. Reach out to other guys in similar situations for advice, encouragement and shared wisdom. All the best as you seek to grow, heal and recover!

 

This is something that every enlightened, progressive, sex positive person who isn't shackled by ridiculous, ancient taboos knows. It's a lie.

Porn has been around probably since we figured out how to draw on cave walls with a burnt stick. Masturbation has been a thing likely since before that. However, Internet porn is something entirely new and it jacks you up in ways we never could have foreseen. Your girlfriend gets points because she's trying to be encouraging and understanding, and make a compromise. Despite her good intentions, though, she's misinformed. People have sexual desires, and in normal circumstances this is a healthy thing. Internet porn, though, is a great way to isolate yourself and turn you into a maladjusted misanthrope.

Good for you for recognizing the problem, and making the choice to better yourself. You just tripled your odds of success.

 

Hey mate, there is nothing you can achieve by regretting on your past, you hurt her, move on, you can't do anyhing for that..what you can do is make her happy in future.. try to do that..atleast you are trying that's good for your relationship...the only way to curb your urges..is to curb those who urges you.. find the triggers that urges you..write them down on a paper...and then find a way to avoid each trigger.... for say if loneliness urges you better you can talk to your gf, and like all that...
try to make a journal where you can maintain your everyday progress...it also gives a feeling of achievement..
the last thing be honest in your relationship..if you think you alone can't control the problem let her know and ask her to support you...that would be beneficial for your relationship.....

 

good stuff