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Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Burri12, Feb 20, 2019.

  1. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    This is my stry
    erect while watching porn i needed hand stimulation to get it erect . One day when i fapped and slept . Other day when i woke up i went to bathroom i strtd having pain and burning sensation in my penis . I got affraid .i searched it on internet and on that it showed very dangrous disease and having symptoms like ed and loss of libido tooo n i was lost i begun to think how will i get married now bla bla blla i made my self depressed and affraid.After a doctr advised me to do a urine test and diagonsed uti .
    Then while searching on intrnet i came to know about NoFap and gave it a try ist month was horrible like withdrawals and all anywas i completed 3mnths .There was no improvement on my libido but one day i don't know y i got indulged in a erotic chat and i got erect automatically . And during my reebot i even sometimes woke with morning woods . But due to my erotic chat i begun in a death grip and started fapping again .
    Ryt now i don't have libido for sex it feels my sexual excitement and sexual mechnimec isn't working .
    No erections
    Was getting morning woods a week before now i don't know if i i get it or not
     
  2. modernstore99

    modernstore99 Fapstronaut

    Ok two things in here
    1. You have a urinary tract infection (UTI). These are fairly common amongst men and women. It just means you got some bacteria down your dick and your body's freaking out. You'll probably pee a lot, feel burning in your dick, and feel sick. It doesn't mean you did anything bad, you just got some dirty stuff in your penis. Just be cleaner and take better care of yourself and you'll be fine.

    2. You likely have a porn addiction https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/mis...-has-not-prepared-your-brain-for-todays-porn/. Your brain has been conditioned to receiving sexual arousal through porn and online media (in place of real life women) and receiving sexual pleasure from your hand (in place of another human's flesh). No need to freak out, literally thousands of people on this site have had this and recovered. In short, to get rid of your addiction and get your arousal to women back, you will need to do a 90 day no PMO streak https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/too...m-porn-addiction/rebooting-basics-start-here/ , and then rewire yourself back to real women, by having sexual relations, after a successful 90 days of no PMO.

    Not to be mean but your words are kinda scattered and vague so some elaboration on your situation would be helpful aha. Just calm down for a bit, read the articles, and see if you think you know what's going on with yourself
     
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  3. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    Sry my english isn't good.
    Actually naked women .porn .or erotic chat doesn't give me a boner as it used to give . It feels like my sexual function isn't working .
     
  4. Burri12

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    I mean i get a lil bit attracted to girls but then thought of ed pops into my mind
     
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  6. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks fr replying and advice
     
  7. Reboot16

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    You've just got some anxiety added in to PIED - that's not unusual. I had the same. :) Once you get to a point where you've stayed away from porn long enough and aren't jerking off all the time, you'll start to re-wire arousal for girls and sex and believe me, you'll have no problem at all getting hard.
     
  8. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you brother
     
  9. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    Plzz tell me solution
     
  10. Reboot16

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    * Stay away from porn, don't watch it, don't think about it
    * Reduce masturbation down to only once every 2-3 days at most and when you masturbate only think about a realistic situation with a normal girl (not a porn star).
    * Remember that it's okay to look at women in real life and think about them - that's totally nature behavior for a heterosexual male. I actually get excited when I see a hot girl now - if you feel your dick twitching in your pants, that's a great sign. Just smile about it and move on.
    * Try working out - that helped me a ton - once I started feeling better about myself, a lot of my anxiety went away - eventually what will happen is you'll be so horny for a female that believe me - anxiety won't even come into the equation because you'll be so sexually cranked up ready to have sex that worry about having an erection won't even be a variable in the equation anymore. :)
    * Something I did also that may or may not help you is this - I read articles about how to please women in bed. I already thought I did a pretty good job but figured knowing more about their anatomy and what they really like would help and I think that also helped me as when I would get in bed with my wife, I'd be concentrating mostly on what I thought would please her the most, and then as I would do those things, just listening to her moan and scream would get me cranked up. Also a side piece of advice here is when you masturbate, or have sex with a woman focus on just enjoying the experience instead of going as fast and hard as you can - sex should feel good and you shouldn't be in a big rush to have your orgasm, draw it out and have a nice time.
     
  11. Burri12

    Burri12 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you
    But my mind feels like sex is a work
     
  12. Burri12

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    It feels like my body doesn't care about a female or female pleasure .
     
  13. Meditation Monk

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    Hmmm, maybe it is a "natural phase" you are going through? try substituting better things for your bad habit and develop better habits instead. I know I am 125 clean of watching pornography and masturbation after taking a long break from it. Took me a lot of preparation as well too. Reading and studying and looking up stuff online. Good luck bro. I know you can do it.
     
  14. Reboot16

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    When was the last time you had an orgasm and when was the last time you watched porn?
     

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