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Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by User353, Apr 12, 2018.

  1. User353

    User353 Fapstronaut

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    My husband told me he would M to fantasies about my sister, who is my best friend. I dont know what to do. He wants to save our marriage, he is going to counseling ans doing everything he can to quit PMO but I dont know to deal with him ever having desires towards my sister.
     
  2. Hey there, @User353, sorry to hear you're going through this. :(

    I see from your profile that you are 20 years old. Could you tell us how old your sister is - even if you just want to say "older" or "younger"? I think this too has a bearing on the situation.
     
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  3. User353

    User353 Fapstronaut

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    She is 24
     
  4. User353

    User353 Fapstronaut

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    He is getting rid of his smart phone and starting to use a flip phone and he has his dad and my brother as his accountability partners. Is there more he needs to be doing?
     
  5. I would deer-ly like to be known as HART, but it's @HARP, actually. ;)

    I would honestly say that Ghostie is the great PA resource you could do with... I just kinda slipstream behind people, nod and try to look wise. I fail. :)

    As far as your feelings go, give it time and see how you feel in a few days time. It's a painful thing to hear and I suspect you won't truly know yourself how to feel, until you've had a little more time to process things.

    But if you continue getting strong feelings about it, don't ignore them.

    Take care.
     
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  6. Queen_Of_Hearts_13

    Queen_Of_Hearts_13 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, in my signature is a resources thread, it's a great place to begin to learn and to start healing. I wish you all the best in this, if you need anything don't hesitate to reach out!
     
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