Please help me, I don't know what to do!

Stop taking those pills! You are becoming dependent on them. I used to take them when I would meet a new girl to prove to her what a big shot I am, sure it worked but then I had to keep taking them.

If you are hooked slowly wean yourself off but NEVER take them again after that.

Your normal hard erections will slowly come back one week at a time...

 

L Arginine is totally safe and works. Even with a full reboot you might still need them.

 

She should be more understanding of the situation. If you feel you need to take the pill still, at least wean yourself off. Take half or a quarter of the dose the next few times and then NEVER again...

I am so much more confident now that I can keep a hard erection without a pill.

I was hooked for awhile...

 

I have ED but it's medication induced. Watching porn just makes it worse but it's not the main cause. It's years of anti depressants. The pills don't work for me but that happens with lots of guys. You could go hard mode for a year and still not have a good enough erection for sex depending on the severity of the PIED. If your partner thinks any outside help for ED is wrong she will probably never be happy.

 

You can't get addicted to an amino acid that's just ridiculous.

 

My advice is to be completely honest with her. Tell her you know you have screwed up your system with both porn and pills and that you want to recover so that you can satisfy her fully in the way she wants. Tell her that it may take a while for you to reach that goal and ask her to be patient. Commit to quitting PMO completely. [Why is your streak 0?] Say that while you are in recovery you want to explore other ways to satisfy her other than PIV (oral, toys, hands etc.)

ANH

 

I would reboot along with taking the L Arginine with the only exception being sex with her. So complete hard mode minus intercourse with your wife. Is that workable?

 

Lots of truth in this post. ALWAYS satisfy your women first with oral or something before full intercourse and she will never be dissatisfied. Glad I learned this at an early age...

AND STOP PMO

 

Not sure that goes for 100% of women, 100% of the time, but thanks for the endorsement in any case!
ANH

 

From experience i wouldnt be satisfied with just oral and toys. One its almost impossible for me to cum from oral alone. And using toys for me is suppose to be an appetizer not the main course. Having normal penetration sex is for pleasure but also an intimacy things as well. And it helps to make the woman feel desired and wanted and when a man cant get up for you it makes us feel terrible and unwanted. I know from first hand experience since its something i am going through at the moment.

 

It is difficult for both partners - the woman feels unsexy, unloved, unwanted - he feels a failure as a man and you tend to reinforce each other's negative feelings. The more you focus on the problem the more difficult it becomes to solve. Taking the penis out of the equation for a while may help by reducing the pressure to perform.

ANH

 

I've tried that but didnt work either. How long do you think it is acceptable for a woman who really wants to have sex with her boyfriend to accept that she wont be getting any sex?

 

Hi Angelus6698,

I think you and I have very different views on this. Happy to discuss on your thread if it would be helpful to you, but I don't think it would be helpful to MMLM to do it here.

ANH

 

All the advice you get here won't help unless you yourself make a commitment to quit PMO and start building that streak. You are not getting off the starting blocks. Aim for a first streak of at least 7 days. Avoid your triggers. Make a list of other things you can do instead so you can distract yourself and take your mind and your hands off your dick.

ANH

 

7 days is goal #1! 14 days goal #2!

Then 30 and so on!

You can do it!