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Plan - Easy Mode - TG Porn

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by arthurr, Jul 9, 2017.

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  1. Jul 9, 2017 #1
    arthurr

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    Hellow fellow,
    After a discouraged period I'm motivated and with a new reboot plan.
    I've never been a fapper and my problem is pornography as a stress-reliever, 99.9% of my relapses are because of boredom and not because I'm excited, understand?

    The plan is to do the reboot with masturbation 3x a month, i can do this. I know masturbation is not healthy, ideally it would be sex with a girl but my situation is pretty bad and I'm deep addicted to TG porn and it embarrasses me too - of course, I'm going to masturbate for a real girl and not a transgendered person, TG porn makes me very sick.
    It's been 3 years that I'm trying hard mode and can not do it until now, I'm almost 10 years addicted to transgendered person porn, crossdresser and lately sissy porn.

    It's scary that genre, degrading and increasingly popular - it's fatal poison.
    Quit porn is first step to my personal development.

    My plan includes new habits like cold shower, meditation, lifting and healthy eating.

    Q:
    1. Iam 21 and would like to know my brain will recover totally from all this pornography curse ?
    2. What do you think of my plan ?
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    Ty's !
     
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  2. Jul 9, 2017 #2
    Protagoras

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    Why plan for any jacking off at all? If you are not married, then why not go for full reboot? If you jack, you'll just be playing highlight reels in your head. No reason to continue to wire your brain to that stuff. I would encourage you to try forsaking masturbation too.
     
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  3. Jul 10, 2017 #3
    PersonalizeHere

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    How strongly do you feel the act of masterbation is tied to pornography? Are they two separate entities or inseparable? Would fantasy based on your sexual partner be too close to the pornographic feedback?
     
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  4. Jul 10, 2017 #4
    Atlanticus

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    It depends entirely on your degree of P-mindedness. In principle, the two can be separated. And in principle, fantasy based on your real-life SO would be fine. NoFap's not against M, after all.

    However, in practice none of the above is likely. Like the rest of us, you're likely here because of an excess of P; your P-addiction may be inspiring "okay" scenarios (i.e. rationalizations) just to slip past your defenses; and the "sexual partner" referenced is likely not the love of one's life but the superficial playmate of a P-influenced addict.

    So... yes in principle ... VERY unlikely in practice, IMO.
     
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  5. Jul 11, 2017 #5
    arthurr

    arthurr Fapstronaut

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    - Thank you all to help me.

    I discovered NoFap 3 years ago I was not as addicted to pornography as I am now (I was already consuming tg porn but not sissy porn - this is very degrading), the attempt to leave made me addicted even more and punish myself for relapses.

    When I masturbate without pornography I feel good, relaxed, relieved and I have no desire to watch porn after,
    I feel even happy not to have watched porn but if I had masturbated during long porn sessions I would feel shamed, deeply regret - a feeling that everyone knows. Maybe I'm not even a masturbation addict, the my problem is that when you're bored, stressed, feeling down thinking about relieve in porn, masturbation for me is not directly associated with porn.

    It will only be 8x fap in a period of 3 months - it's sure to be less harmful to me than if I were relapsed.
    I know clearly that masturbation is not healthy and the benefits that seminal retention brings but in my case I thought of using masturbation as temporary help in the next 3 months, I believe this will help me strongly to stay away from these bullshit tg/sissy porn.

    - This post is not in any way defending or recommending masturbation, I will abandon this habit soon too.
     
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  6. Jul 11, 2017 #6
    NotSoAverageJoe

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    Same here man. I have failed at hard mode for 5 years, I barely ever actually masterbate and the issue was binge watching porn and edging.

    If you can control it then yeah, feel free to fap 3x per month. That's my plan too.
    Personally I fear pleasure and thinking about sex gives me anxiety which in turn creates urges and more persistent sexual thoughts.

    The problem I see is those going on 90 days hard mode and relapsing since they don't have a healthy sexual outlet or partner to have sex with.

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with masterbating by itself as long as it's not addictive for you.
     
    NotSoAverageJoe, Jul 11, 2017
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