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PIED Should I try to have sex?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Snipes, Oct 8, 2016.

  1. Snipes

    Snipes Fapstronaut

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    So I have recently developed a FWB (Friends with Benefits) relationship with someone.

    I'm 45 days porn free and 7 days PMO free.

    She knows I'm going through a reboot, we've tried to have sex twice, but both times I just gave her oral cuz I couldn't stay hard, but both times I was either 0 or 1 day PMO free.

    Since I'm on day 7 no PMO I feel like I might be able to keep it up for sex, by the time I see her again it will be day 11.

    Do you think I should try, or should I just continue you to have none orgasm sex for a little while longer even if I can keep it up?

    I don't wanna set myself back...
     
  2. DBug

    DBug Fapstronaut

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    First off: Do you mean 45 days P-free and 7 days MO-free?

    Generally us younger guys take longer before we get our erection back and having/trying to have sex too soon can set a bit of our progress back, cause strong cravings for P afterwards (chaser-effect) and some fall right back into a flatline.

    But we are all different!
    Your 2-time-oral-sex-experience and being intimate with a FWB sure has helped a lot with rewiring - maybe even enough! You are the only one who can tell us if you're ready or not.

    It would be safer to wait but there's also the possibility that you really are ready - only the test will tell. Maybe you are somewhere in the middle e.g.: You can somehow get it up but cannot orgasm and/or still have problems keeping it up. We cannot know until you tried it.

    Think about both options and then decide but also listen to your gut-feeling when you're with her.

    Best of luck mate!
     
  3. Snipes

    Snipes Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, sometimes it's easy to get lost in all the information and what others have done and you forget sometimes you just need to base some things on your gut, which can be tricky, I guess I'll only know the right thing to do on the night.
     
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  4. mike lowry

    mike lowry Fapstronaut

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    you should definitely try, do not overthink it, relax. i think penetration without O and focus on the sensation can help a lot with the rewiring process.
     
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  5. MasturbatieAtelier

    MasturbatieAtelier Fapstronaut

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    I agree with this. I was on day 45 (hard mode) when I first tried....no succes. After doing some other stuff, a few try's later things worked better. I think any kind of sexual contact with a girl you like will help the rewiring.
     
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