PIED cured!! (For the second time)

Hey man.

Glad to hear of your experiences, I managed to have great sexual intercourse around day 25.

I have abstained quite a bit and i have generally stayed away from porn, masturbation etc.

I feel a lot less anxious, even though I am under a bit of stress as person running a business but yet I do not feel much anxiety. I definitely feel like a man again.

I feel alive. Porn is just not worth it.

Keep going

 

I totally relate to the PIED stories! I know that pain lol
Good to hear that you're cured, soon it will be me! Stay strong, brother

 

Hi,
PIED is one of the major reason why I ended up finding this place. In 2016, I did a 180 days non PMO. PIED was cured at some point, not sure exactly if it was within 50 days, but I'd say so.

Now in 2019, after I fell back down the PMO rabbit hole, I got a 2 weeks Xmas vacay where I PMO to hell and back. 6-8 hours straight a night for two weeks. The wife doesn't want sex usually more than once a week, so in all cases I did PMO. I hurt my skin, I was edging without much erection, as I was drinking alcohol and had whiskey-dink. I got insta-PIED after that binge. So here I am again!

Coolidge is strong, causing me to not feeling aroused much, if at all, when I'm in front of my wife. This is a nasty element of PMO addiction. The wife is not impressed, although she knew I felt back into PMO mode. She catches me every so often when I do.

Chaser is also nasty, because even in my reboot in 2016, as I regained my E and had a normal life, the day following real sex I was feeling like doing it again, which the wife doesn't support one bit. So, I was stuck with the desire to have more sex.

This Porn shyt is definitively the scourge of sexuality. Imagine when VR-porn will be more mainstream! There will be more men falling down the PMO abyss. Men will further get away from the real deal, further isolate themselves instead of seeking the real deal (which sounds vanilla compared to ever changing actresses).

The wife compares herself to what is in porn, she doesn't understand that coolidge leads to SHOPPER's FATIGUE (my homegrown expression) lol.

Doesn't matter how cute the girls are in videos, I was watching P to get different stuff every time. A single woman that you love will not be able to compete with ever changing desire to see somethign new... this is the BIG reason 2 of why I'm here. I mentally hurt my wife by PMO'ing.

My boss was contemplating the idea of sending me somewhere for 2 years, where I wouldn't have been able to bring the wife with me. SICK PMO ME, I was almost looking forward to it, knowing that I would have all kinds of time to indulge P. Good thing this didn't get thru...the P was trying to be my advisor....

Rant off.

 

Yeah the VR prospect is terrifying. Time to get out of this hole and make damn sure the younger folk don't fall into it!

 

Yes, lets face it.
We first got addicted to the internet, as everything was new and shiny. I know I spend too much time on it. P content started to appear, as a lot of audio-video technologies benefited from sales from P consumers. I* don't want to come up with fake news or make up things, but what could be the percentage of VR equipment purchasers are buying to access VR-P?
I know that if I was to buy VR, which i don't, I would need to spend at about 1-2 thousand bucks? The first thing the addicted in my would do is to try VR-P.

Just throwing numbers out there...I believe that 40 to 50% of VR gear buyers are planning to VR-PMO....anyone want to risk a number just for shtuff and giggles?

 

@icantbelieveit,

I somehow suffer from PE also. Well, we know that porn vids are lies. The average guy lasts like maybe 2-7 minutes, don't remember exactly but I did research this before.
I have had discussions with the wife, but before it gets better it gets worse. She feels like I may dump her for a younger lady (wifey is 55 yo) (cause most porn vids don't show old folks). Its wrong.
I try to explain to her that I wasn't focusing on looking at younger, more like some fetishes, different settings, etc. Women will compare themselves to the P you watch. Then believe you are looking (on P sites) for what you don't get in relation to her...Last time I rebooted, with 180 days under my belt, my wife was proud and being more active. But humans being humans, she slowly started to fall back into the previous mold. I'm not loosing faith, but I talked to her 2 days ago, and she called-in sick at work and crawled into a ball in bed yesterday. Her emotional side didn't connect with her reasoning of anything I was telling her.

To me, P is just a kaleidoscope of different vids for different orientations and tastes. Categories work AT FIRST. Coolidge effect ruins your appetite for the videos you were watching the month before or something. Then you end up looking at Clown P or some other weird shit. Sci-fi stuff, other sexual orientations ,etc...

P is one of the worse lies ever. You end up "shopping" for kinks you don't even care! Then one day, P boredom will make you find another kink that will excite you...it totally rekts your brain.

 

Dude, It's the same with me. Never had PE before, but It's happening now that I'm healing my PIED. I do the same thing: take it slow, focus my breath, focus my thoughts etc. I also like to invest a lot of time on foreplay. And yes, abstaining from PMO is the best way to get rid of all of these problems

 

I agree. The problem I have is that quitting PMO, then be careful about that addiction so we don't fall back into the hole, then after deal with our bodily functions and re-learn how to have sex is quite a bit of work! Ah well, I wish everybody a good time and great results. Day by day!

 

I have the same problem with you. Now i want to get cured. I'm on the 9th days without PMO.

I also lost morning erection since I addicted to porn and masturbation since 2008. I want my morning erection back to normal.

Thanks for sharing.

 

You know what you have even described my sex life exactly. . We have the exact same problems. Even I got cured of PIED last year and had sex. Trying to cure myself again. Hope to catch up with u someday!!!

 

Oh don't worry it will return and when it returns u will feel like a pornstar on v iagra

 

Lol you want the annoying morning woody? I take zinc and potassium supplements. You can also get some non-tasting/non-smelling garlic gelcaps, b6 vitamin...or eat a lot of celery and bananas...that will help.

https://www.healthline.com/health/erectile-dysfunction/zinc