PEOPLE SUFFERING FROM ED, HOCD, premature ejactulation etc. ITS ONLY TEMPORARY

Guys don’t worry it’s all good. This is only temporary. When I was 18 I started watching porn everyday and jerking off once a day basically and yes when you first start doing that it doesn’t really affect you until it catches up to you. On top of that I was getting laid as well. Then a fucking year later of continuing to PMO I started getting HOCD and yes it sucks when you know you’re straight but just think, if you don’t like feeling like that then fucking obviously you’re not that way. I’ll go back to the HOCD in abit. Also you’re erection gets weaker and the worse part is the premature ejaculation. Sometimes you’re not even erected and you cum. Yes I know it sucks it’s embarrasing and it temporarily brings your self esteem down but i would tell the woman that i was taking a medication and it caused this lmaooo it works. So I quit Porn when I was 19 and yea I would masturbate alittle bit and after 5 months I was cured. Everything went away. Now that I’m 25 barely like 2 years ago I started PMOing again just because I enjoyed the high and i didn’t have to deal with girl drama but anyways I model and just live that lifestyle which is partying a lot, a lot of girls Etc. I have had mental issues because of that, I would do some drugs so I have a shrink and she’s really good so she has been helping me out for the past 3 years. So anyways PMOing caught up to me AGAIN and it made my problems worse, gave me a bunch of fuckin anxiety that everytime before I would go somewhere I would get intrusive thinking, I also have HOCD, ED, And premature ejaculation. All of this sucks and yes it’s the worse. Remember that PMO can TEMPORARILY cause depression and anxiety and worsen intrusive thinking or make whatever you’re going through worse. Yea I said I was going to go back to the HOCD part and about that, if you know that girls always attracted you since you were to young to even remember and romantically want to be with a woman then you’re not gay or even bi. There’s nothing wrong with being gay either but yea I know when you have HOCD you don’t like it because that’s not you. While I had HOCD I tried getting jerked off by another guy and man it was weird for me and really awkward and I didn’t even get erect but hey I guess I “tested” myself lol. I have some gay friends and I opened up to them about my HOCD because they know me well and they told me that when they had a PMO problem they were checking out other girls and it was terrible for them because they didn’t want to be straight. I also spoke to my shrink about the HOCD problem and even my parents and siblings and they didn’t even think it was a big deal because they know me very well and they know my history. So the good news is that it’s curable guys so don’t worry! Just think of it this way, ignore it and it’ll go away with time as long as you don’t PMO anymore because PMOing warps you’re sexual tastes. So I hope this helps people that are going through HOCD. Your ED will also vanish and you will be able to last longer in bed as well but abstain yourself, go hardmode for like a month - 2 months and you’ll see a big difference although you most likely won’t be fully cured but you will see improvements I promise! Remember that you’re just suffering the consequences from porn and masturbating excessively but in the end you will see the light again and you will be able to help others out in the future struggling with similar problems. Hang in there guys. Be patient and have that mamba mentality !

 

Right on! Great story ! Yes it’s hard to abstain but little by little it gets easier and easier. Just have to be patient. I forgot to share but what gave me motivation is to think how many girls are waiting for me to rock their world when I recover! If anyone has a any questions feel free to ask. Open up and take out what’s bothering you. No one here will judge. We are just trying to help each other out to reach the goal to be able to fuck like a puma again !

 

Ok bro take a deep fucking breath and relax. Remember when you were a kid and you didn’t even know what gay or straight was? Just remember when you started missing a girl you had a crush on in class for no reason and remember when you started getting erected and wanting to have intercourse with a woman that looked delicious. Right now you are probably looking at “how it is to be in the closet” on google and all that shit right? Dude you’re just stressing yourself out my man. Let me tell you something. I had a roommate who was a part of this religion, I think he was Mormon or something like that. We ended up being good friends and then he opened up to me about being gay but he said he is secretly gay because of his religious beliefs but he secretly dates men and fantasizes about men and he enjoys that. Reason is he has to keep that a secret because like I said his family is really religious. That’s an example of being in the closet. So ask yourself this. Do you like having HOCD? Do you enjoy going out and having HOCD symptoms? If you don’t then YOU ARE NOT GAY OR BI!!!! There is nothing wrong with being gay but if you don’t like having HOCD then that answer the question. So go out and get help and abstain from PMO. It’ll take time. There will be moments where you say fuck this shit I give up and all but when you feel like that, go out for a walk or talk to someone. If you can’t afford a good shrink just come on here and ask for help. I’ll always help you or anyone on here. If you also don’t believe in a higher power which is hard for a lot of us, then get motivated about something. Set a reward for self. When I want to PMO i always tell myself that I’m gonna go out there when I fully recover and rock a beautiful ladies world who is waiting for me. Just remember who you were before this addiction....that’s the REAL YOU. Remember too when you reboot the withdrawal symptoms will get worse temporarily but little by little you will see improvements and see light again. I PROMISE

 

Love the attitude. Anymore questions, I’ll be here. I want all of us on here to get back to normal and be happy because life is short.

 

Just keep rebooting my man. It takes people awhile to reboot and it just depends on the person and how bad the addiction was. Only in the long run while rebooting you’ll find out. There isn’t anything wrong with being gay or bi though. To me you sound like a straight man with warped sexual tastes and that’s what porn and masturbating does to a lot of us. Some people don’t experience that but a lot do. PMO wrecks your spirit, sexuality and your mind. This stuff temporarily causes mental disorders if it’s an addiction. Just reboot and get some help and you’ll be fine. You will know your true self in the end of rebooting and you’ll be happy with whoever you are.

 

I realized that the older you get with PMOing that it catches up to you and then you start feeling the effects from it. Good news is that there’s always a solution ! Great job my man !

 

Correct! Remember also when you reboot the symptoms may worsen for awhile also you will experience flatline which causes confusion but It’s only temporary so don’t beat yourself up and give up when this happens. Time goes by so fast so you’ll be fine

 

I know the reboot process is different for everyone. Sometimes it takes some people up to ten months to recover 80 percent. How long did it take you ?

 

Time flies bro. Congrats !!