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Penis Health Massage Question

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by YellowPig, Feb 24, 2019.

  1. YellowPig

    YellowPig Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys,
    So today I went to a massage place, and I got a massage. After the end of the massage, I asked the masseuse if she could perform a penis massage (for health purposes mind you, nothing sexual here). And she agreed to do it.
    The massage consists of pressing the bottom parts of my penis and my middle part. A VERY TINY amount of precum came out. Note that I did not intend for that to happen.
    My question: is this considered a relapse?

    Cheers
     
  2. "Penis massage". Now that's something I never heard of before.
    Is it going to make the pen-pen stronger or what ?
     
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  3. overclocked

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    Only if you are addicted to penis massages.
     
  4. YellowPig

    YellowPig Fapstronaut

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    @UltraFree Probably.

    @overclocked Fortunately I am not. So, I think I’m on a good track. Yay. I’m on Day 12 btw.
     
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  5. "penis massage"
    "for health purposes" :cool:

    Getting your penis "massaged" by a woman is healthy actually, so props!

    I wouldn't consider it a relapse. Don't fall into the trap of thinking any and all sexual stimulation is a sin or some such nonsense. As long as you aren't using sexual pleasure to escape life's problems, you are fine.

    You are human, and your body's response to the stimuli is natural. Don't over think it man, you are fine. Hope the lady was hot too.
     
  6. It depends what reboot goals you set for yourself. NoFap does not dictate what is relapse and what is not. It's up for people to decide depending from limits they set themselves. Do YOU think it was a relapse?
     
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  7. Tiger1

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    Sounds like tempation to me....
     
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  8. Habbapop

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    Well, first of all. Is prostitution illegal where u live ? Cous that would coun't as a sexuall transaction where i live.
     
  9. YellowPig

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    @Habbapop It is legal, but that ain’t the issue.

    @010010010100000101001101 I don’t think so. I did it for health purposes, not for sexual reasons. And I’m not feeling any different from before (confidence still there, brighter eyes, tons of energy, etc).

    @Tiger1 It is somewhat, but I am not tempted at all. I went home and never thought about relapsing; it didn’t have an effect.
     
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  10. Tiger1

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    302464]@Tiger1[/USER] It is somewhat, but I am not tempted at all. I went home and never thought about relapsing; it didn’t have an effect.[/QUOTE]

    For that one time only u didn't think about
    ...as time goes on though it may be harder to resist.
     
  11. Habbapop

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    Well, ofc it's an issiue. If you break the law to get a penis massage ( there is no "non sexuall penis massage" ) your addiction won, it fooled you to think that breaking the law and getting a penis massage is NOT a relaps when it is.
     
  12. Its a relapse and u go to hell
     
  13. Healthy penis massage does really exists but necessary to make it in the correct way.
     
  14. ReclaimedLife

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    "Massage Place" :emoji_laughing::emoji_laughing::emoji_laughing:

    There are no massage therapists in the regular medical health care that will touch a customers dick.

    And to me, every transaction to get any kind of sexual service is negative because you lack the skill to attract a real wamen who does it because she likes you and wants to do it for you.
     
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  15. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    Penis massage is the very definition of masturbation - no matter how you touch, rub, or shake it. Don't kid yourself, boy!
     
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  17. JoeinUSA

    JoeinUSA Fapstronaut

    A lesson to the kiddies following Pig's cloven hoof prints.

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  18. Beekind

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    U r playing with fire.
    Yes it is a relapse
     
  19. HardToQuitSexAddict

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    Any form of touching or having somebody play with the Penis is relapse, precum will appear cause you are aroused.

    Penis massage is a sexual act btw.
     
  20. Aquablue

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    The main question to ask yourself is your motive. If indeed there was nothing sexual then you have nothing to worry about. But if you did it out of arousal or a sexual intention, this is a slippery slope even though you did not ejaculate or orgasm, it will happen eventually. Also when you ask for a penis health massage, it may depend on what the therapist understands that as, and if she is also aroused or has sexual thoughts or intentions (which most women would while massaging a penis). You are then exchanging sexual energies with her.
     

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