**SPOILER** Met this girl for the second time. First time she met me she basically jumped on me in my house. Kissing, etc. It was literally straight away I had her top off. She was putting up a bit of playful resistance and was adamant no sex as first date 'I'm not a slut' usual female societal conditioning. Fine. Met her a day later, this time out and about and took her for dinner. All through dinner she was holding my hand. I just felt like I wasn't comfortable with it. I feel what happens in private is fine and go wild all you want. I didn't voice that I didn't like it but I imagine it was apparent, I was like really cringing inside. As I walked her to the train she continued to try to hold my hand, put her hand in my pocket and generally be really in my space, kiss me etc. I felt like being 'yo get the fuck out my space.' TBH I was super relieved when she went and I had my personal space back. She's a nice enough girl but this personal space thing outside the context of sex is tripping me out. What are people's thoughts on this? Is this 'lack of wanting intimacy outside of sex' a result of twenty years of PMO?