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PA- FYI- survey from my friends...we don’t like that shit porn shows girls like!

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by BetrayedMermaid, Apr 28, 2018.

  1. I think there is something to be said for the audible aspect of sex as well. I certainly get turned on by the sounds my wife makes when I am pleasuring her. In those cases, it's a win-win for us.
     
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  2. AllanTheCowboy

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    Actually it's positive punishment.
     
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  3. BetrayedMermaid

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    I could never do it the “right way”... way as he saw it in porn... he wouldn’t complain really verbally but I could tell it wasn’t what he wanted but it literally makes me gag going down that far... and that’s not fun for me.
     
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  4. Numb

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    He tells me he doesn't like to do it the 'right way', so we've only ever finished that way twice. But I do have a harder time with doing it at all since seeing some of the stuff he has watched. It is now a trigger for me, but I am trying to work through it and not let it interfere in our sex life and destroy something I do like.
     
  5. This "right way" that you speak of sounds completely wrong to me. The only right way would be one in which BOTH parties benefited. Period.
     
  6. The "right way" being referred to here is deep throat - I'm betting lots of women can't overcome the gag reflex. I never was given that until about 15 years ago - and I didn't even like it. I was like "what ARE you DOING?" LOL.

    I don't like watching it either. I especially don't like to see women gagging - that shit sucks.

    Mutual oral sex, on the other hand, is very good.
     
  7. BetrayedMermaid

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    Wait... what do you mean?
     
  8. AllanTheCowboy

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    Punishment is an imposed penalty for an undesirable behaviour. Positive punishment is giving something as punishment. Negative punishment is taking something away as punishment.

    Reinforcement is an imposed consequence/reward for desirable behaviour. Positive reinforcement is giving something as a reward. Negative reinforcement is taking something away as reward.

    Examples:

    Positive punishment: you were out past curfew, so you must do extra chores. Corporal punishment also falls into this category.

    Negative punishment: you were out past curfew, so no tv for a week.

    Positive reinforcement: You cleaned the bathroom on your own initiative, so here is chocolate cake.

    Negative reinforcement: You cleaned the bathroom on your own initiative, so now you don't have to mow the lawn; I'll do it for you.
     
  9. BetrayedMermaid

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    Well my intention was not to “punish” him by telling people...
     
  10. AllanTheCowboy

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    I wasn't really commenting on the situation, just the terminology. I lie words and science
     
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